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I am so torn right now i cant stand it i know you have to want to live with someone with this disorder but it is so hard.Icant get him to get on medicine he always has excuses not to but the mood swings my gosh it enough to make me want to jump off a cliff..Im pregnant with his chid he only wants to be nice when its convenient for him we went today to the ultra sound to see what we were havin (its a boy)he started a stupid fight with me on the way there did not sit by me in the office and did not say a word to me the whole time we were there or on the way home.now i love him and need advice i mean im to a point that i want out im crying everyday he will be prince charming for 3 days and satan for 5 this is doin me in please help...something some advice my heart is broken

I am with a man that has so much hate in his heart however he can be so sweet at the same time.I just found out i am pregnant and yes i have other children and his two kids as well that i have taken under my wing . I love them as they are my own i have been feeling under the weather lately and almost passed out today him and i got into an argument about his x wich is a drug addict and we are going through a custody battle that i have paid good money for.anyway i told him i needed to go to the hospital and he told me to f u c k myself. so i ended up driving myself there. he always tells me they are his kids when we are fighting and talkes very ignorant to me in front of them i think he is bi polar but im not a dr. he said he wolud get a dr. the last big fight which in front of the kids called me some pretty choice words. this is ongoing with him .he just lost his job after 10 years and i am being very supportive.at what point should i walk away.if you dont have a heart dont answer ?

just sad tonight me and my boyfriend are fighting he said he wanted to hit me.he never has and i know he would not it just hurt me i guess......

do you think it is right for a 10 year old girl and a 12 year old boy to watch R movies thas have sex and nudity in it ? my boyfriend thinks this is ok for his kids . i am a mother as well and think that is not appropriate for young children. and dont be ignorant.

I have a bf that moved in with me he has two children wich i love so so much. He is a very up down person all the time and when i say down i mean down his verbal abuse can cut like a knife.not to mention all the drama with his x.but anyway i am very sad and not happy at all with him .we are in the middle of a custody battle with his x trying to get custody and we do have tempory custody right now..his daughter sees i am sad alot but begsme no to leave her dad.This is killin me i know that i am the closest thing to a good mom she has had ever and he is either playing his game watching tv or sleeping.so i not only work two jobs but still spend more time with the kids than him.I really think he is bi polar but wont go to the docs. to help him even the kids see it.Do i leave and take my losses and break her heart or do i stay for the kids.oh and i have my own children as well but they hate the way he is too.please help say something i need to hear..

i am living with my boyfriend its my house so he is staying with me.we got emergency custody of his 2 children because his x was not taking care of them she is very ignorant to me and the court told him to drop the kids off at her moms house when she wants to see them so ther is no trouble so he is not to go to her house and she is not to come to ours.however this is the thing she pulls across the street tries to talk to him all of the time and i asked him not to talk to her unless it was about the kids. he decided to go to her house and pick up the kids and they had a nice little talk and he proceeded to tell her our business meaning about our fights and stuff i am furious this woman has put us through hell. i paid the attorney 1200 dollars to get this done and i love them like they are mine i am ready to leave him over this she calls me out of my name all the time and i turn the other cheek because of the kids.i understand they have to talk about the kids but i feel thats it.help...

my father is so against black people he hates them.I am dating and living with a black man i am 34 years old and have never dated outside my race until now.He loves me to death and i love him but my father said thet he is taking me out of his will because i am with him. the money does not bother me its the fact that he cant see how happy i am. i have four children and he has two his children are mixed we are not planing on having anymore of course we have enough between the two of us.i dont know exactly how to fix this i am finally happy and our children are happy it breaks my heart that he looks at his color not how good he is to me and my kids and that this black man is loving and respecting his daughter with everything he has...its a sad situation it hurts me alot any advice would really help....thanks

ok my boyfriend lives with me in my house with his two kids.that i love of course and treat like my own.however his x disrespects me to the fullest she calls me everything in the book in my driveway but my boyfriend tells me to be the bigger person which i have been for the kids sake .but he never defends me he just ignores her now i do understand i am an adult but im getting to the end of my rope what should i do?

i am a dog trainer and i do have alot of animals i own my own house and he wants me to give my animals the boot outside i run a tight ship and my house is clean since we met he has been cool and helpful now he wants me to put my dogs outside.

then he has the nerve to say i dont have any right to my opinion with his children even though i take care of them work two jobs and its my house he is living in.and i love them like they are my own even though i have my own kids as well.