Brittany

I am a guy. I find that I am more open about how I feel and I tell her but she doesn't seem to understand why i need to hear how she feels. For me, it's so I know where it is heading and if we are on the same page but as soon as we talk about it or mention "if she is falling for me like I am" it goes awkward afterwards and we usually make out afterwards to in a sense change the subject.

Is it justified the way I feel? I feel I am constantly angry about being in the dark and feel I really need to talk about. Please help.

I am a guy. I find that I am more open about how I feel and I tell her but she doesn't seem to understand why i need to hear how she feels.

For me, it's so I know where it is heading and if we are on the same page but as soon as we talk about it or mention "if she is falling for me like I am" it goes awkward afterwards and we usually make out afterwards to in a sense change the subject.

Is it justified the way I feel? I feel I am constantly angry about being in the dark and feel I really need to talk about. Please help.

I started seeing this person last week (officially) after texting for a month and they told me they wanted to be with me and called me their girlfriend and babe and affectionate names. However they still haven't changed or removed their relationship status on facebook (which says they are single) and their ex posts on their wall and they talk with alot of x's and call each other babe. (although the ex lives on the other side of the world)

We met on a dating site too and on the thursday they asked if I had been on and I said I had no reason to which they replied by saying same. However I went on out of curiousity today and saw the last time they were on on was this afternoon today! (thursday was 3 days ago)

Do you think they like me? When we see each other we touch and kiss a lot but I really can't tell at the moment....

I started seeing this girl last week (officially) after texting for a month and she told me she wanted to be with me and called me her girlfriend and babe and affectionate names. However she still hasn't changed or removed her relationship status on facebook (which says she is single) and her ex posts on her wall and they talk with alot of x's and call each other babe.

We met on a dating site too and on the thursday she asked if I had been on and I said I had no reason to which she replied by saying same. However I went on out of curiousity today and saw the last time she was on on was this afternoon today! (thursday was 3 days ago)

Do you think she likes me? When we see each other we touch and kiss a lot but I really can't tell at the moment....

Please help!

I just went on my first date with this person I think they're amazing, they've been on my mind too much, we text daily about each other etc etc. So its been over two weeks and we met at the beach.

We chatted constantly for two hours before it rained and I walked them back to the car and we awkwardly stood opposite each other, a bit of a distance and I reached in for a hug.

They opened up today and told me things they've never told people before. And our chat afterwards seemed flirty and promising. Should I initiate a second date? I initiated this one and I don't know how long we should wait between the first and second date.. Thanks!

I just went on my first date with this girl I think is amazing, she's been on my mind too much, we text daily about each other etc etc. So its been over two weeks and we met at the beach.

We chatted constantly for two hours before it rained and I walked her back to the car and we awkwardly stood opposite each other, a bit of a distance and I reached in for a hug.

She opened up today and told me things she's never told people before. And our chat afterwards seemed flirty and promising. Should I initiate a second date? I initiated this one and I don't know how long we should wait between the first and second date.. Thanks!

Okay so can anyone "read the signals" I was texting her tonight. We started talking about everthing tonight and it got on the topic of girls and dating. If you like a good read, or dramas then read this :P Well it started about me saying she was funny so I shall write it out:

*her*- ha ha ha i dont know whether to take that as a compliment or not. So entertain me. What are you looking for in a girl?

*me*- haha it was a compliment ;) well in case you didn't realise humour! confidence, adventurous, outgoing and fun :P what about you?

*her*- Unlucky im none of those things ha ha ha i pretty much like the same. Must love the outdoors. Be relaxed. And independent. Interesting to talk to

*me*- i know this is so awkward...you ask a lot from a girl don't ya :)

*her*- ha ha ha i just like someone happy with themselves. How cheesy does that sound!

*me*- not at all, rare to find surprisingly! so have you been with someone before? :)

*her*- i had a girl while travelling..she kinda broke my heart a bit ha ha but im fully recovered now! I know you have not been with one but Have/do you like a girl

*me*- oh im sorry to hear that i guess it gives you experience. ha well ive always been i think they call a 'hopeless romantic' im always falling :p your position atm?

*her*- Yeah i dont regret any of it. Hmm u dunno it takes me a while to like someone, i dont fall fast like you do!

*me*- ha thanks :P fair enough, so you were with this girl some time?

*her*- Hmmm like 6months. Was my first proper thing with a girl which is prob why it hurt so much when it finished...well when she decided she liked guys :p ha ha

*me*- oh no really? well that sucks! her loss :P was this on camp?

*her*- Yeah we travelled together after camp too. Ha ha yep her loss :P so how many girls do you like at the moment then since you fall so easily :)

*me*- Oh would have been a good experience travelling with someone your seeing. Ha im not that confused iz :p just one, but its great for my music writing, inspiration! Ha

*her*- Thats cute are you writting about her? You have to show me some work some time. So tell me about her!

*me*- Ha no i get inspired by anything really, a sound i hear its ridiculous :p na its alright ha

*her*- You know youv gotta show me some work! You ignored the part where i said tell me about her :P

*me*- Haha well i dont know what to say, my guitar does :P

*her*- Thats cool im trying to learn the guitar but im too impatient

*me*- Ha once you get passed the sore fingers stage its all good :) so back to you, what category would you fall under?

*her*- Yeah it really hurts the fingers! What do you mean by category?

*me*- Ha :p well im a 'hopeless romantic' what about you?

*her*- Erm im awkward ha ha na i start off hard and maybe even arrogant and once i know someone i tend to become a bit of a romantic

*me*- Haha hard and arrogant, how so? I guess there is romance in everyone :)

*her*- You dont think i came off as hard and arrogant when you first started texting me?

*me*- not at all, in fact i can hardly remember the brilliant awkwardness that started our texting, can you? ha

*her*- You messaged me your number in case i wanted to text, so i did :P pretty sure that was how it started ha ha

*me*- oh so you did did you? :p wow good memory! i still cant imagine you being arrogant, your just too nice :p ha

*her*- I have a fantastic memory! Except for when it comes to remembering what movie I am supposed to watch (a bet we have whoever watches the movie first gets coffee shouted) Ha ha i dont like being called nice...

*me*- haha well what do you like being called? hope its not naughty..ha :P

*me*- i apologise, definitely getting a present from santa then. you are fun then :)

*her*- ha ha ha no your all good i was just talking on the phone! I like being called iz actually i noticed you called me that earlier!

*me*- oh you do? iz it is then :P ha as you can see im hopeless, i really cant tell in texts ha

*her*- Texts are annoying aye! Definately get a drink this week. Once u have watched the lion king (movie I have to watch to win the bet) ha ha im off to bed have a good night c

*me*- yes ha you check that forecast :) sweet dreams xx

So what does this all mean?!?! I can't get her off my mind!!

Thanks :)

Okay so can anyone "read the signals" I was texting her tonight. We started talking about everthing tonight and it got on the topic of girls and dating. If you like a good read, or dramas then read this :P Well it started about me saying she was funny so I shall write it out:

*her*- ha ha ha i dont know whether to take that as a compliment or not. So entertain me. What are you looking for in a girl?

*me*- haha it was a compliment ;) well in case you didn't realise humour! confidence, adventurous, outgoing and fun :P what about you?

*her*- Unlucky im none of those things ha ha ha i pretty much like the same. Must love the outdoors. Be relaxed. And independent. Interesting to talk to

*me*- i know this is so awkward...you ask a lot from a girl don't ya :)

*her*- ha ha ha i just like someone happy with themselves. How cheesy does that sound!

*me*- not at all, rare to find surprisingly! so have you been with someone before? :)

*her*- i had a girl while travelling..she kinda broke my heart a bit ha ha but im fully recovered now! I know you have not been with one but Have/do you like a girl

*me*- oh im sorry to hear that i guess it gives you experience. ha well ive always been i think they call a 'hopeless romantic' im always falling :p your position atm?

*her*- Yeah i dont regret any of it. Hmm u dunno it takes me a while to like someone, i dont fall fast like you do!

*me*- ha thanks :P fair enough, so you were with this girl some time?

*her*- Hmmm like 6months. Was my first proper thing with a girl which is prob why it hurt so much when it finished...well when she decided she liked guys :p ha ha

*me*- oh no really? well that sucks! her loss :P was this on camp?

*her*- Yeah we travelled together after camp too. Ha ha yep her loss :P so how many girls do you like at the moment then since you fall so easily :)

*me*- Oh would have been a good experience travelling with someone your seeing. Ha im not that confused iz :p just one, but its great for my music writing, inspiration! Ha

*her*- Thats cute are you writting about her? You have to show me some work some time. So tell me about her!

*me*- Ha no i get inspired by anything really, a sound i hear its ridiculous :p na its alright ha

*her*- You know youv gotta show me some work! You ignored the part where i said tell me about her :P

*me*- Haha well i dont know what to say, my guitar does :P

*her*- Thats cool im trying to learn the guitar but im too impatient

*me*- Ha once you get passed the sore fingers stage its all good :) so back to you, what category would you fall under?

*her*- Yeah it really hurts the fingers! What do you mean by category?

*me*- Ha :p well im a 'hopeless romantic' what about you?

*her*- Erm im awkward ha ha na i start off hard and maybe even arrogant and once i know someone i tend to become a bit of a romantic

*me*- Haha hard and arrogant, how so? I guess there is romance in everyone :)

*her*- You dont think i came off as hard and arrogant when you first started texting me?

*me*- not at all, in fact i can hardly remember the brilliant awkwardness that started our texting, can you? ha

*her*- You messaged me your number in case i wanted to text, so i did :P pretty sure that was how it started ha ha

*me*- oh so you did did you? :p wow good memory! i still cant imagine you being arrogant, your just too nice :p ha

*her*- I have a fantastic memory! Except for when it comes to remembering what movie I am supposed to watch (a bet we have whoever watches the movie first gets coffee shouted) Ha ha i dont like being called nice...

*me*- haha well what do you like being called? hope its not naughty..ha :P

*me*- i apologise, definitely getting a present from santa then. you are fun then :)

*her*- ha ha ha no your all good i was just talking on the phone! I like being called iz actually i noticed you called me that earlier!

*me*- oh you do? iz it is then :P ha as you can see im hopeless, i really cant tell in texts ha

*her*- Texts are annoying aye! Definately get a drink this week. Once u have watched the lion king (movie I have to watch to win the bet) ha ha im off to bed have a good night c

*me*- yes ha you check that forecast :) sweet dreams xx

So what does this all mean?!?! I can't get her off my mind!!

Thanks :)

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