sam cook

Me and my fiancee ran into one of her exes while we were out the other night. I stood at a distance while they hugged and chatted for a while, I did not asked to be introduced and am not sure if my girl knew that I know that they had a thing (that's before we ever met btw)

Two weeks later I see on her facebook that she sent a direct message to this guy telling him that she dreamt about him. Now, the guy's response was very vague, he basically did not intertain her or ask what she was on about and it stopped there and they never made contact since.

It now bothers me because I keep wondering what her intentions were and that I am not all she ever wanted or not wnough. I often with the guy could have encouraged her further so I could see where this was going.

I never confronted her about it coz there was just not enough for me to go on...

Should I be worried that my girlfriend of 4 years recently "inboxed" a guy she had a brief fling with just to tell him that she's had dreams about him. His repply was very brief and vague, she has since deleted the messages from her message box too.

I know about their brief history as this is the guy she cheated with on her ex boy friend and she unfriended the guy on FB when she was with me and after I found out who she was.

Now she has been talking to her friends about us having issues (that are not there) and suddenly I see she sent this guy a message that she dreamt about him. She sent him a message on Facebook and this is the guy she "unfriended" years ago when I found out about the nature of their relationship before I met her and they have since stopped all comunication and suddenly she reaches out to him.

I am not going to say anyting for now, I will just monitor the situation. SMH. We ran in to this guy a few moths ago on a night out and they chatted a it but I never stood around to be introduced or nothing.

Me and my girlfriend live together with our 2yr old son. The sex has dwindled but we still support each other and generally very happy wih how things ar going other than the financial strain and busy working life.

However,everytime we have an argument, she tells her friends that we are drifting apart and does not know if I am feeling the same way because I never speak out about how I feel.

I have stopped initiating intimacy with her because she said that is the only thing I am willing to fight for in the relationship otherwise I let everything else "slide". I am by nature not one to be confrontational with anybody, when I see that if I oppose someone on what they are sure of will cause an argument, I just stand down and let them see the results for themselves and dont even say "I told you so".

Now she has been talking to her friends about us having issues (that are not there) and suddenly I see she sent this guy a message that she dreamt about him. She sent him a message on Facebook and this is the guy she "unfriended" years ago when I found out about the nature of their relationship before I met her and they have since stopped all comunication and suddenly she reaches out to him.

I am not going to say anyting for now, I will just monitor the situation. SMH. We ran in to this guy a few moths ago on a night out and they chatted a it but I never stood around to be introduced or nothing.

Me and my girlfriend live together with our 2yr old son. The sex has dwindled but we still support each other and generally very happy wih how things ar going other than the financial strain and busy working life.

However,everytime we have an argument, she tells her friends that we are drifting apart and does not know if I am feeling the same way because I never speak out about how I feel.

I have stopped initiating intimacy with her because she said that is the only thing I am willing to fight for in the relationship otherwise I let everything else "slide". I am by nature not onbe to be confrontational with anybody, when I see that if I oppose someone on what they are sure of willcause an argument, I just stand down and let them see the results for themselve and dont even say "I told you so".

Now she has been talking to her friends about us having issues (that are not there) and suddenly I see she sent this guy a message that she dreamt about him. She sent him a message on Facebook and this is the guy she "unfriended" years ago when I found out about the nature of their relationship before I met her and they have since stopped all comunication and suddenly she reaches out to him.

I am not going to say anyting for now, I will just monitor the situation. SMH. We ran in to this guy a few moths ago on a night out and they chatted a it but I never stood around to be introduced or nothing.

Me and my girlfriend live together with our 2yr old son. The sex has dwindled but we still support each other and generally very happy wih how things ar going other than the financial strain and busy working life.

However,everytime we have an argument, she tells her friends that we are drifting apart and does not know if I am feeling the same way because I never speak out about how I feel.

I have stopped initiating intimacy with her because she said that is the only thing I am willing to fight for in the relationship otherwise I let everything else "slide". I am by nature not onbe to be confrontational with anybody, when I see that if I oppose someone on what they are sure of willcause an argument, I just stand down and let them see the results for themselve and dont even say "I told you so".

My girlfriend went on a tangent the other day and one of the things she said was that all I seem to care mostly about is sex. We did not speak for a few days after that but now we are back on speaking terms and everything is back to normal.

After what she said I have decided to put more effort in the thingsshe mentioned in her tirade and I also have not made a move to try "get some" either. She can see that I have backed off a little but her attitude seems to be that "Huh, well I won't either so let's where that takes you".

I have been wanting to have sex with her as days go by and I know she has too but it seems like no one will come outright and ASK for it. Someone said, "when the stomach does not get fed, the appetite also decreases and eventually dissapears".

Iam now hoping that this will be the case for me and also hoping that I could have an ouportunity to stray as I will take it without blinking.

I feel that wat she said was very hurtfull and to still want to play this game is also very cruel on her part.

She's college educated (diploma) 26yr old and I barely finished high school and am now 30. We had a baby within a year of us meeting and also moved in together after only 2 months. We have now been together for 3 yrs and our baby is turning 2 in May. Shws been catching up with her University friends lot lately and some of them are friends with her ex-boyfriends from college and guys she was chatting with before we met.

She saw on Facebook that one of her guy buddies ( someone she wanted to have a thing with before we met [and I know this because the messages they shared are still on her facebook account] ) had graduated and she just let it all out. Said she sometimes she regrets the choice she made (that being myself)

She said I am a good for nothing no plan having, just sex wanting couch potato – Now, I have held a steady Job for 5rs and have a car but have loans to pay out so I have not been the best provider – I have been an excellent father to our son but she’s not very keen on playing happy family yet as she wants to study just like her other child less friends who are in no relationships either. I have not spoken to her since.

I get her point though – She has been doing most of the providing and but I have done all I could and she knows that. The only thing is that I am stuck without finances and do not know what to tackle first when it comes to improving my earning potential….We had a house to rent which was a bit shoddy but could have afforded us the time and money to spend on other things but she wanted to keep up with her fancy friends and move to the burbs and now we are in over our heads every month. She has friends that also live in not so glamorous areas who are still finding their way like us and have the same responsibilities like us but she would not listen to me when I told her these things and now I have to answer again.

I'm not one to speak my fears and feelings which then makes it seem like I'm indifferent to my sorroundings bit I have also been cracking my skull thing about our situation but...

She's college educated (diploma) 26yr old and I barely finished high school and am now 30. We had a baby within a year of us meeting and also moved in together after only 2 months. We have now been together for 3 yrs and our baby is turning 2 in May. Shws been catching up with her University friends lot lately and some of them are friends with her ex-boyfriends from college and guys she was chatting with before we met.

She saw on Facebook that one of her guy buddies ( someone she wanted to have a thing with before we met [and I know this because the messages they shared are still on her facebook account] ) had graduated and she just let it all out. Said she sometimes she regrets the choice she made (that being myself)

She said I am a good for nothing no plan having, just sex wanting couch potato – Now, I have held a steady Job for 5rs and have a car but have loans to pay out so I have not been the best provider – I have been an excellent father to our son but she’s not very keen on playing happy family yet as she wants to study just like her other child less friends who are in no relationships either. I have not spoken to her since.

I get her point though – She has been doing most of the providing and but I have done all I could and she knows that. The only thing is that I am stuck without finances and do not know what to tackle first when it comes to improving my earning potential….We had a house to rent which was a bit shoddy but could have afforded us the time and money to spend on other things but she wanted to keep up with her fancy friends and move to the burbs and now we are in over our heads every month. She has friends that also live in not so glamorous areas who are still finding their way like us and have the same responsibilities like us but she would not listen to me when I told her these things and now I have to answer again.

I'm not one to speak my fears and feelings which then makes it seem like I'm indifferent to my sorroundings bit I have also been cracking my skull thing about our situation but...

My live in girlfriend of 3yrs ( mother to our 1.5yr old son ) has been chatting to a male colleague on one of these social networks and I see that they have been calling each other "babes" , "my love" oh and I Love you's and it all seems very casual and playfull at the moment from the looks of things, but when I saw these my blood boiled and I had trouble sleeping...It looks like they could be grooming each other at the moment especially the male colleague. I know that nothing has happened Yet and me and my girlfriend are not really secretive and there has not been any untoward activity, however these 'chat' conversations only started about 15 days ago. I have not confronted my girlfiend about it nor do I plan to for the moment until I see it continuing to the same direction I fear it might be heading. I just need to find out from those who have been in this predicament, What does this mean ? What should I lookout for ? What should I do as I am now angry at my girlfriend and she will not know why I am so p*ssed off.

a player asks another for a shirt swap

the other player pats the one on the sholder and points to what I persume is the dressing room or is it.......why?

Pirlo was out played on both legs but he is a master still and Cesc ....well....

I'm at this new job>>>I meet this lovely girl>>>we like each other>>>she asked me my name first>>>>we chated online>>>told her i admire her>>>>then finally I told her I want us to tske things further>>>she said no she is not looking for a relationship at the moment>>>so I let it go>>>>so i expect us to still be cool, you know>>>the way we were>>>but now>>>I dont think she even likes me anymore>>>>she has this evil look on her face when she talks to me.............is this behavior familiar to any one out there and if so>>>please tell me what tha fu*!k is goin on????

where is Louis Enrique?

If you saw me you would describe me as: Stylish

Charming

Sweet

ect.....ect

Basicly I could get any woman I want and I know it. I've had my fair share of lays but have never been in a proper relationship.

I thrive on holiday flings and one night stands. Now there are women at work and I have run out of excuses and I've already made my move on this one hottie and I'm shaking in my boots...all there is left to do is say the word and as ALWAYZ I want to abandon the whole thing. I feel like I'm running away from heaven please advise!!! I have always had confidence isues but that is all a thing of the past now.........why in the life of me cant I shake this off!!!!!!!!!

If you saw me you would describe me as: Stylish

Charming

Sweet

ect.....ect

Basicly I could get any woman I want and I know it. I've had my fair share of lays but have never been in a proper relationship.

I thrive on holiday flings and one night stands. Now there are women at work and I have run out of excuses and I've already made my move on this one hottie and I'm shaking in my boots...all there is left to do is say the word and as ALWAYZ I want to abandon the whole thing. I feel like I'm running away from heaven please advise!!! I have always had confidence isues but that is all a thing of the past now.........why in the life of me cant I shake this off!!!!!!!!!