How do i know she likes me?

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Ok, so here is what i am facing.  This girl and i have been friends for a very long time, well, all thru highschool, we have had our ups and downs in the freindship but she always seems to come back to me and vise versa.  We have made out a couple of times and i asked her out last year but she said she wasnt ready.  Now, this week she calls me up and asked if i wanted to hang out and of course i said yes! she was over here eveyr night for the past couple days now.  i really like her but i dont know if i should ask her out again in fear of rejection! what should i do!?? i really really like her!

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I think if she is coosing to spend that time with you then it's fairly obvious she enjoys your company. I think you should go for it. You only live once and like you said; you friendship always pulls through so what have you got to lose. Good luck :)

sara · Answer

It sounds like you know this girl really well, and that's a plus for you.  You should be comfortable and able to talk to her about almost anything, including your feelings.  Just sit her down and tell her that you don't want to rush things, but you felt like she deserves to know how you feel.  Tell her that you just want to take it slow, day by day, and see how things progress.  Hopefully she feels the same way, but if she doesn't, then at least you told her and you can stop worrying yourself.  Rejection is part of life, no matter how crappy it is.

Good luck!

Anonymous · Answer

Give it a few weeks or so....after all she is already coming over.  Let both of you feel things out a little, before you pounce right on the going out thing.  That will give her a chance to grow use to the idea.  Good luck!

Anonymous · Answer

Your never going to know unless you ask. Maybe it is the way you ask that scares her off. You should charm her first to make sure she is into you. Give her plenty of complement and if she starts to comment back I believe she is in to you. And heck if your old enough get a little liqueur in ya. It always makes me brave. Good luck ahhh its christmas time, Got mistle toe.... That will get you that kiss

Shon · Answer

Leave her alone for a few days. She may miss you and ask you out. If that fails to work just let her know how you feel again. If she rejects you again then just let her know being friends isnt going to work for you.

Anonymous · Answer

JUST ASK HER.
You will never know what could've been if you don't ask her.
Even if you get rejected, HEY, there so MANY fish
out in the sea who want a guy like yourself :]

rebecca · Answer

You should wait on her, because if you are friends first and then date ,you are going to loose her. You never date your friends because it never works out and then you will loose a friend to. So wait on her! She'll come around one day. If she loves you. if she doesn't find someone who will.

tastiestyapper · Answer

i would say yes ask her out again i dont see y she would say no and if she does there might be major mixed signals there that need to be worked out some how

comfort eagle · Answer

If you're afraid of rejection, you are in for a very boring life.

froggy48 · Answer

Sit down and talk to her. Y'all have been friends for a while so it shouldn't be that awkward. at least tell her how you feel.

How do i know she likes me?

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