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Markell
Markell asked in Family & RelationshipsOther - Family & Relationships · 1 decade ago

Is love for everyone? please help me!?

HEY EVERYBODY I HAVE A QUESTION. DO YOU THINK THAT LOVE IS FOR EVERYBODY? I BELIEVE THAT IT'S JUST NOT FOR ME..I COULDNT START TO TELL YOU HOW MANY TIMES I HAVE BEEN HURT. BUT I CANT COMPLAIN BECAUSE I LIKE LEARNING FROM MISTAKES AND IT ALWAYS HELPS ME WITH THE NEXT RELATIONSHIP. SOMETIMES I JUST LOOK AT PEOPLE WHO ARE IN THOSE PERFECT RELATIONSHIPS WITH THAT ONE PERSON WHO LOVES THEM AND WILL DO ANYTHING FOR THEM. YOU KNOW MR. RIGHT OR SOMETHING LIKE THAT. SOMETIMES I JUST THINK ABOUT MY PREVIOUS RELATIONSHIPS AND SAY, "LOVE ISN'T FOR EVERYBODY." YOU WOULDNT BELIEVE HOW MANY TEARS I'VE CRIED. IM TIRES OF SEEING PEOPLE HAPPY GOING ON DATES AND STUFF AND IM STILL SITTING LOOKING DUMB. I REALLY DO TRY TO TAKE THINGS SLOW AND TRUST THAT THE NEXT PERSON ISN'T GOING TO HURT ME...BUT I ALWAYS END UP HAVING A TRUST PROBLEM AND I REALIZE THAT I CANT HOLD ANOTHER PERSON ACCOUNTABLE FOR THE LAST MAN'S MISTAKES. I ALSO REALIZE THAT IF I DONT HAVE THAT TRUST THINGS ARE NOT GOING TO WORK?

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  • capricorn
    1 decade ago
    Favourite answer

    HI'

    I'M AN OLDER WOMEN AND LET ME TELL YOU IT DOESN'T START WITH A MAN IT STARTS WITH YOU.

    DO THAT SOUND CORNY OR WHAT ,BUT IT'S TRUE.

    NO ONE IS GOING TO LOVE YOU UNTIL YOU TREAT YOURSELF THE WAY YOU WANT YOUR HUSBAND TO TREAT YOU.

    GO TO CHURCH AND HAVE THAT CRY AND GIVE ALL YOU PAIN TO THE LORD. HE LOVES YOU. NOW LEARN TO LOVE YOU,LOOK IN THE MIRROR AND SAY "I LOVE YOU".EVERYDAY AND TREAT YOURSELF LIKE THE PRINCESS YOU ARE.YES ,YOU WANT A MAN BUT WHAT MAN WANTS SOME ONE WHO DOESN'T BELIEVE IN HERSELF.

    GIRL ,LIFE IS SO PRECIOUS.

    I DON'T KNOW WHEN YOU'LL READ THIS BUT ,

    I WANTYOU TO DO SOMETHING NICE FOR YOUR SELF.

    THAT WILL MAKE YOU HAPPY.

    JOIN A CHURCH AND OR VOLUNTEER SOME WHERE.

    I'LL TAKE YOUR MIND OFF OF BEING LONELY .

    AND BOOST YOUR SELF ESTEEM.

    GO TO THE LIBRARY AND READ SOME BOOKS ON SELF-ESTEEM.

    YOU'RE GOING TO BE FINE ,PLEASE SMILE ,LAUGH AND LOVE YOURSELF.

    GOD BLESS YOU

  • big apple.
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago

    well' frist of all' you just don't go around looking for someone that you think is going to hurt you, this is what you doing, yes love is for everyone' so telling yourself it is not is not going to change things. there is no such thing they call a perfect relationship. the love and trust you put in a relationship is what you look for from someone else.there is love all around you and you don't have to look for it.

    Source(s): my sister.
  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    well ove is not 4 everyone and their is no such thing as a PERFECT RELATIONSHIPS ever relationships has its ups and downs is how u choose to deal with it

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