Guy Help! What should I do?

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I know this guy I really like, basically have a crush on.  He knows I like him, but he's really nice to me about it.  I don't want him to feel so restricted and let him go out or whatever without giving him the thought of being jealous.  Also, he goes to a separate school now, so I don't see him as often as I used to.  We still talk though...I really want to strengthen our friendship again though and resolve the above worries. 

Any ideas or suggestions would be excellent!  Thanks everyone!

Jayrowme · Accepted Answer

Long distances are tough and there is always going to be those worries and jealousy if they are around other people and stuff... You just have to let it go and not worry about it so much if this is the kind of relationship you want.

It's ok to be somewhat jealous cause that shows that you care about the person and want them to be true to you, and they should realize that.

Just make sure it's not to jealous where you are bothering them and making them feel boxed in or trapped or untrusted. If you trust them tell them that you do...

Don't get to deep into things until they look like they are working out and can. Don't attach yourself to much if you know you can get hurt in the situation, and be careful about that.

If there is a good possibility that something wonderful may turn up of things between the two of you... Write e-mails, talk on the phone, try to have some kind of contact daily, meet every once in a while... 

There needs to be some sort of contact or at least events and agreements between both of you that lead to a future relationship / friendship later on that can reach across the distance eventually.

Lakshmi A · Answer

just try 2 talk 2 him every day, go on drive&#92;film mean2 say try 2 spend time with him for few days ,
if he is close 2 as u hoped  its better 

orelse 
just try move close 2 an other guy , if he really likes u uhe will come to u  &express it

smokey · Answer

It sounds like you need to relax a little, be yourself and not someone you think he wants. If the relationship is meant to be than it will take its course.  Try to enjoy the ride! Take care

Guy Help! What should I do?

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