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guy problems?

okay so my friend was really really exclusive with this guy who she at the time thought was the one they got really close and he and her best friend back stabbed her and started dating now she is still heart and thinks all guys are like that what is she to do i cant get her to change her mind i need help bad

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  • 1 decade ago
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    I think this girl just needs some time to think things over. Shes just trying to find herself in this so called crazy world where people tell you who you should be. Shes trying to solve everything, kinda of like a puzzle expect the pieces never fit right. Time heals everything.

    P.S you're a good friend for being so concerned you should be proud of yourself, and she is lucky to have you.

  • 1 decade ago

    I've been that girl before. Sadly, there isn't much you can do. You can tell her that all guys aren't the same, that she's a beautiful girl, that she'll meet a really nice guy...but she's not going to change her mind until she realizes it herself. I just suffered a breakup and I felt terrible. All my friends told me that I was a beautiful girl, that I could do better, but I didn't start feeling better until I realized it on my own. Just talk to her and listen when she talks. Don't judge, just listen. One of the worst things for me was when everyone said bad things about my ex. It didn't make me feel any better, but listening did. So if she wants to talk, just be there.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    she has got to realize that not all guys are like that, you have to explain to her that there are guys that get backstabbed and heart broken all the time as well, i am one of them, girls always backstab me, they always go away. i am one of those nice guys who loves the person he gets and doesnt cheat becuase he is so glad to have them. but thats just me, there are nice guys in the world.

  • 1 decade ago

    u need grammar help

  • 1 decade ago

    DO WHAT U THIKS IS RIGHT.

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