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Because they're blinded! I agree 100% with your question. AMEN SISTER! .... (or brother... i don't know. lol) I plan on waiting until I'm married to love my virginity as well! Sex is God's wedding gift to men and women. To take it before marriage is like stealing to me.

Not everyone is. My brother's girlfriend is a virgin and will be until marriage. Same with one of my friends. I, for one, am happy planning to stay a virgin forever. Then again, I'm a misanthrope and I don't want to do anything of the kind with people, certainly not if there's a chance of making more people.

What's so good about sinning? Well, if sinning didn't feel great, people wouldn't do it. Have you never sinned? I'm sure you have. What's so good about the sins you've committed? (As in, what was so good about it at the time)

You can back everything you say with the bible. I can back anything I say with other books. A muslim can back anything they say with the Quran. Not to mention the fact that ALL religions say that they are the "one true religion."

EDIT: I am well aware of what repentance is. I guarantee that I have a much larger vocabulary then you. As it is, I AM BAPTIZED. I do not "hate righteousness," I simply do not completely agree with what you think is righteous. If you must know, I've been going to church service AND Sunday School every weekend since I was born. If you wanna talk church, I can back my points with facts from experience and priests. Then there's the fact that, I'm an atheist. As such, I don't believe in your god or hell. If I don't believe in the tooth fairy, why would I be frightened if someone told me that the tooth fairy was going to attack me?

Bahaha, don't judge.

If that is something you want to do... then by all means, wait until you're married.

You should accept other people's views on the matter.

I'm not a virgin. I'm not even with that person anymore. I was with them for three years. I loved them dearly but things didn't work out in the end. I'm okay with that and that's all that matters. Not even marriage is guaranteed... haven't you ever heard of divorce? Or are you saying we should all be celibate and never date again?

Because they can. You can't judge others, or expect them to live by the morals that you live by, now can you? It might not make sence to you why others lose their virginity. But why does it have to, right? If you wish to wait till you are married to have sex, then that is fine!!! But YOU can not judge others fo rthe sins they have done...You said it yourself...you have sinned, so therefore you can not cast the first stone.

As you grow older, you will understand that the bible can not be taken litterally, but rather interpted. In the bible, it tells a man to treat his wife as he would the church. But what if that man does not? You are going to subject yourself to that sort of treatment? Are you going to subject your children to that sort of treatment? If you husband constantly beats you, he is beating a temple that God himself made, and by you allowing that, you are allowing another to hurt Gods temple...and is that not a sin?

Or, what about the man who steals to feed his family? Stealing is indeed a sin, but also is not providing for your family. So if a man steals to save his family, is he a sinner? Would Jesus condem him for it? Not at all.

When you judge, you sin, and you my dear, have judged. My advice to you, is mature and grow a little more before asking such large questions. Virginity and sex is a large subject for a young lady to fully understand. I am not saying that you are dumb, but I am saying that you have not matured enough to understand. You also have not experienced life outside of the church, and are really believing what others have told you (The paster, youth minister, and so forth) And that is fine, but you have to make your own path in life, not the path someone else has made for you.

You also have to understand that not everyone who comes onto these boards are Christian, or have the same set of beliefs as you. And as a good Christian young woman, you must accept these differnces and not "shove" eternal damnation on someone because they have a differnt veiw than you. And remember, just because someone is not Christian, does not make them bad, it just makes them differnt....

Love all, hate none, forgive...

You're religious, I see? Only sleeping with one person for 30+ years would get boring.

Edit: The thought of 'sin' is used to control people.

Uhm excuse me? Not everyone had the same religion and beliefs as you. What makes you so right?

Edit: You are extremely close minded. There are hundreds of religions and beliefs, just except it and move on.

AMEN! I'm still a virgin. I'm not having sex until I'm married.

Some people don't care about having morals.

It feels great. Some people say the only better things are certain drugs.

Well you are obviously a virgin...

Its there life not your so you should just shut up and have a good day

They either try to fit in, or they are just easy. And it also feels good.