What would you do??.....?

Question

I am talking with two guys...we are just in the "friendship" stage but with both guys I can tell it's moving forward.... I'm not sure what to do. Both of them are sweet, caring, have good steady jobs, cars, they are both long distance, and I have a lot in common with both of them BUT they are SO different! I like them both very much but if one of them were to ask me out I would have to not talk to the other one... (rules...) so I don't know if I should just mark them both off and be friends or if I should wait and see what happens.... any advise?

Update:

Thanks! :) I have been thinking about both a lot.... one thing I didn't say is one of them just got out of a BIG relationship.... He's ready to move on but I don't want to become a "second choice" for him...

ashley · Accepted Answer

I would let it play out and see if either of them ask you out! but be careful with the one who just got out of a BIG relationship because you don't wanna be second best or be compared to them!! trust i know i have been there and just because he says he is ready to move on doesn't mean he really is! he could Just be looking for a rebound or a girl to "help" him get over the other.

Smile Lots, Stay Postive · Answer

i would either:

1. let things play out and go for whichever one makes a move first
2. or deeply think about which one i like more and which one is better for me, go for him, and friend zone the other one

What would you do??.....?

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