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My boyfriend had multiple affairs whilst with his ex?

They were together for 10 years and had 3 children together.Then i came along, i was single and knew he had children but he didnt say he was with anyone. I hadnt had sex for 6 months but we ended up sleeping together that night...The affair continued for months and then she caught us in bed together and left him. He then asked me out and we have since been together for 10 months. He says he wont cheat on me, he said he was unhappy with her but what i cant understand is why he never left her if he was so unhappy. He slept with over 10 girls (that i know of) while he was with her...Its just a genuine concern i have and i hate how we met but im just having trouble moving on from this fear

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  • Anonymous
    5 years ago

    You should get for your knees and thank your fortunate stars that you just dodged a bullet with this chick. What you did incorrect was in now not identifying a greater individual to have as your gf. This girl isn't worthy of you. It is one factor to search out infidelity to be an appropriate attribute in a friend. You ought to have a better regular for a gf seeing that it will turn out to be a perpetually sort of relationship...And any person who thinks having a 5 12 months affair is not that dangerous just isn't anyone you will have to wife or as the mother of your future youngsters. You deserve the high-quality. Handiest date individuals who're invaluable of you!

  • 9 years ago

    You're dumb for staying with him. You're exactly right - if he was so unhappy, why did he stay????

    Why cheat???

    doesn't make sense, dear. And he'll cheat on you, too.

  • 9 years ago

    Honestly, I would leave him. If he can do that to the mother of his children, the love of his life and the one he promised to love and devoted his life to...he can do that to you and any other girl. Please, leave while you can. Easier said than done, but being cheated on isn't fun.

    http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=201206...

    Answer mine in return, please?

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