Im so upset with the lack of support i get from my boyfriend...?

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I got charged with drink driving in the weekend at 12:30am. My bf and i were in the car and the cops took me to the police station for processing. My bf had no phone on him at the time but said he will wait at the police station for me. The police took me to another station then dropped me off at the main one afterwards - about 1:30am. I was angry cos he wasnt there so i went to town to see if he was clubbing but didnt see him. I bumped into his friends who gave me a ride home at 3am. My bf turned up at 6am saying he was looking for me. He said he walked from 1 side of town to the other to find me but i dont believe him. He didnt try hard enough.

He has a past history of cheating on his ex and im worried that he may have taken that night as an opportunity to roam and see who was out instead of being there for me. Usually he doesnt go out unless we're together. Weve been living together for 10 months.

What are your thoughts?

Rosa · Accepted Answer

Trust is a huge part in a relationship. If there is none, then there is no relationship. He should have been waiting at the police station and not move a muscle from the station. If he cared, he would've been with you throughout the entire process.

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OceanBreeze16 · Answer

If you have so little trust in your boyfriend and your relationship that you think he may cheat on you at the earliest opportunity, it sounds like you shouldn't be together anyway. It's never a good idea to be with a guy (or anyone) with a history of cheating. (Possible exception if it was when when they were still young and naive and they are honestly different now, etc.) But I suppose you try to have an honest discussion about it with him and voice your concerns, and see if he is willing to work on trust between you two.

Bearable · Answer

i think you're being a little paranoid. i really doubt he would go cheat on you while you are in a police station getting processed and stuff. that's pretty serious and i doubt his heart is that cold. if there really are no signs of him cheating, then do not accuse him because that'll end really bad for you guys.

Im so upset with the lack of support i get from my boyfriend...?

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