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? asked in Family & RelationshipsSingles & Dating · 9 years ago

Guys (or girls) What do you think? Not sure what to make of it.?

I am talking with a guy right now who lives about 9 hours from me. We are both Messianic Jews but we have a couple large differences in beliefs. Nothing that CAN'T be worked out. We normally talk everyday for hours. The last week or so he has not been talking much (I've only talked to him MAYBE a hour when we normally talk for 2 or 3 a day!) I don't know why he would start being "Hot/Cold" I know that about 2 years ago he was in a long distance relationship and got hurt badly and so he is hesitant to do anything without taking alot of time (I don't blame him I've been hurt enough times to be the same way) I've tried to ask him whats wrong and he always says "Nothing" or "Don't Worry" etc. I've tried to just place it in YHWH's hands and leave it be but I can't. It's easier said then done. Does anyone have any idea as to why he would all of a sudden stop wanting to talk? Any advice or help would be wonderful!! I'm at a loss right now.

Thank you!

Update:

It's been a week tomorrow that I haven't talked to him... I asked him if he was okay but he keeps saying yeah then not talking to me..... :/ also... we have ALOT in common other then faith. We have the same interest the same life goals. We are both VERY open minded and are willing to look at ANY faith we have found however that being Messianic is the cloest we've been able to get to ourselfs, YHWH, and our famlies. Thank youl for the advice.

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  • Anonymous
    9 years ago
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    It's nothing serious just a little bit of uncertainty.

  • ?
    Lv 5
    9 years ago

    He might be busy. Be patient after a couple days ask him if he is okay and that you are worried.

    This is my personal opinion and maybe something you can think about. I really don't think same faith relationships work. They say interfaith marriages are worse. But, I disagree I think people who are extreme religious are closed minded. They have what I like to call tunnel vision and they can't see the big picture in most cases. This is why i don't think same faith relationships work . Same faith relationships tend to only care that you have religion in common. You may not have anything else in common and are uncompatible. Just something to think about.

    So, I have this to ask you . I can always try to help. What other than being messianic Jews do you have in common with each other ?

    Source(s): Atheist
  • Enraku
    9 years ago

    9 hours. That's really far. I would say, you look more locally. Good luck.

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