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Ten Points, what should i do?
Okay so there's this guy on my team that I have liked for a long time and used to like me, we are in university now. I messaged him asking if he wanted to go for a beer and watch movies at my house (not as a date), he said he was gone all break but he will see. We have never hung out just the two of us, and we're friendly but we don't talk much. Was that dumb? His ex gf dumped him in September and they are still seperated but still have feelings for each other. He was sort of a player in high school. He makes me nervous, and I don't know what to do. I have tried getting rid of this feeling for him, but it didn't work. Be nice please, I'm new to all of this.
3 Answers
- 8 years agoFavourite answer
I think what you did was good! I mean ,if you two have never spent time together alone maybe its time you did! Who knows you might find it appropriate to express how you feel about him and trust me he will be impressed that you did! You just can't live life with "what ifs" you'll regret it later on. Just tell him! But don't scare him away either. You could start off saying, "Look I think you're awesome and there's something that's I've been holding in but I have to tell you that I like you. whenever I'm around you I get nervous. and I know u just went thru a break up but I think things happen for a reason. maybe we should give us a try" :) I hope I helped!
- 8 years ago
Hon, why would you ask him if he makes you nervous? Unless it's a good nervous. I'd say go with your gut feeling. If you wanted to ask him, then you should have asked him. c:
- 8 years ago
no it wasnt dumb to ask him, its smart. it'll help you sort out your feeling for him. wait and see if he gets back to you about hanging out, maybe try and become friends with him first before trying anything else.
