Don't want to leave her, when should I say enough is enough?

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I really am fed up with my wife pointing her finger at me when the you know what hits the fan. I know I'm not perfect, but I know everything isn't my fault. I can't point out her wrongs without her countering with stuff I do wrong. I can't take it no more. No matter how hard I try she still don't want to at least be on the same level with me. She really looks down on me. What do I do?

GK · Answer

Voice-Record the interactions. Keep a diary. 
Get a counsellor to mediate.

Pick This · Answer

The best thing you could do is grow some self-esteem.  If your self-esteem were healthy enough, you'd be able to stand up for yourself without getting defensive nor attacking her.

? · Answer

if you don't have any children run to the nearest bus station and leave misery behind . the longer you hang around the less you will think of yourself .

Anonymous · Answer

Your just having a breakdown in communications. Talk to her.

griggle · Answer

so, you're the guy who ended up with my ex. good luck, brother, you're going to need it.

Don't want to leave her, when should I say enough is enough?

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