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My boyfriend is coming over to stay next weekend, HELP!?!?
I know I may be over thinking this but, my bf and I are long distance. Only by an hour, he's coming over next Friday on the train and is leaving on the Sunday. I'm going to meet him at the train station and walk back with him. We are both looking forward to it... A LOT. But I can't help but feel nervous:
It's gonna be the first time he stays at my house and I've never been to his before. It will be the first time he meets my family, of course he's spoken to them on Skype before and I've spoken to his.. But this is the real deal... I'm really nervous... I've got a lot of worries like: What if we get bored, or things get awkward, should I make him sleep in the spare room like me and my parents planned? All the things like that...
The only tv in the house is the one in the lounge downstairs so we can't watch films in my room. My parents and 9 year old sister use the tv as well so it's gonna be hard with that.
I'm really only worried about the first night because the rest of the weekend I've got things planned, like we're going out on the Saturday to meet my mates and then coming back in the evening to have a movie night. I just need suggestions on how to prepare... I'm 15 and he's 16 (no, I'm not planning on doing anything 'sexual' with him). I just need some suggestions because I'm getting worried... Anyone had bus come over for the weekend, what did you do?? I'd be very grateful for any answers, thank you :) xxxx
I meant BFs, not bus haha XD
Also, I know all of this worrying may be irrational but I am an over thinker and I can't help it. I've always been like that...
2 Answers
- 7 years ago
Relax girl...u don't have to be so nervous. He is coming for you, and not for the T.V or movies. I would say, just be with him, you can maybe go out for a walk...spend some quality time. Because that's d only way you guys wouldn't feel awkward. And, as it you have things planned for the other days, so make the most out of this night in being comfortable with him, knowing him more.
Have a amazing weekend..!!
- Jeff PLv 77 years ago
It sounds like you barely know him. Have you two ever met in person? It seems like your entire relationship has been long distance/online and you don't know how to act when you're physically around each other. I don't know what to tell you--just be yourself and don't try to "force" it because you'll only make it awkward. Or maybe you need to find a boyfriend who lives in your same town...