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Other than assuming men are not being passive enough, why do almost all women continue to ignore men who leave them alone?

Update:

Western women have this Feminist sense of entitlement to keep complaining about male behaviour, while calling all male complaints about female behaviour "sexist".

The fact is that most women just sit/stand around waiting for men to approach them, instead of having the courage or interest to approach men themselves. Moreover women often do change their minds, because they are slower to get aroused than men are.

For men, being persistent is often successful in the long run.

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  • 5 years ago

    fear, disinterest, disgust, but in my opinion if you do "leave them alone" some of them will seem to pursue you more than if you act like a womanizer. My friend who is a big time womanizer and chicks love to hook up with him but he's constantly hitting on them. I never hit on them but they sometimes do to me once in a while but I tend to ignore them or say no. When I talk to him about this it seems like he has no clue what I'm talking about since he hits on them before they ever get a chance to pursue him so they almost never do. In other words, if you stop pursuing them once in a while they will pursue you.

    Source(s): my opinion, chasing girls will get you girls but it will also chase some away who would chase you if you'd let them
  • ?
    Lv 7
    5 years ago

    you can not go around this world and think that everyone is going to feel mutually the way you do about people, places, and things. however, please keep in mind that there is one that will, for your own sake, and don't quit until you have that. It might not be today, it might not be tomarrow..then again, it might. One thing for sure, quitting isn't going to make it happen, b/c it takes two to tango, as they say.

  • ?
    Lv 7
    5 years ago

    Er, what? What does waiting to be approached by men have to do with feminism?

    I'll give you a clue: it's something feminists have criticised extensively.

  • jack f
    Lv 7
    5 years ago

    I don't think that is true. Some do, some don't.

  • ?
    Lv 7
    5 years ago

    If the men are leaving the women alone, why would they (the women) notice them?

  • ?
    Lv 7
    5 years ago

    Why would you not ignore someone who ignores you.

  • ?
    Lv 7
    5 years ago

    Should women reward you for not harassing them with sex?

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