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Which boy should I choose?

I spoke to this boy on tinder about a year ago. We “talked” for a few months and just fell off. He lived three hours a away, and we talked about how when he transferred to a university in my city the next year, we would be able to see each other and finally be together. After we fell off, I met another boy of whom I have been dating for 7 months. I love him. But then the other boy came to my city, he texted me, and ever since then, he has been all I can think about. I want to be with him. I do. Love at first sight kind of thing. Turns out it happened for him on tinder a year ago, but it only happened for me when I met him in person. But I’ve been with this other guy for 7 months. I don’t know what to do. The guy I’m with now is funny, smart, the marry kind of guy. But the other guy blows him out of the water. I can’t explain it. I don’t know what to do. The other guy has given me an ultimatum... it’s me or him... My current guy is better off for me in the long run I feel like, but I want to be with the other one. I don’t know why. I’ve never felt this way about anyone before. I’m 19 years old. Who should I choose for the love of god because he’ll if I know...

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  • ?
    Lv 7
    4 years ago

    He won't know anymore than you do. He'll want your body, not your heart.

    If THEY had to choose between YOU and another Girl or 2,

    what would you say to them?

  • 4 years ago

    If you really CAN'T DECIDE, for yourself, it's time to find guys IN PERSON.

    You can't get to know someone, who text you, or reading them online. How do you know I'm even a woman?

    If he's not real, obviously what they say IS NOT real, either!

    ADVICE: "The other guy has given me an ultimatum... it’s me or him... " ALWAYS a red flag!

    TIP: None of them!

    Source(s): I met my guy 'love at first sight,' from work. We've been together since, married 43 years 3 months.
  • Brian
    Lv 7
    4 years ago

    You've made a promise to the guy you're with now so I'd stay with him. Also the other guy by giving you an ultimatum is showing you he's the controlling type. The guy you're with now lets you be you. You answered your own question by saying the one you're with now is better long term.

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