How do I loosen a tight curl perm?

Question

I just got a perm yesterday and I showed my stylist a photo of what I wanted and he gave me this really tight curl instead when I showed him a defined wave. Came home cried all night and now I’m looking for a way to loosen it. I‘ve read things like shampooing it immediately but some say it’ll relax, I just really need help :( anything is fine. My stylist used blue and pink perm rods btw

Update:

The photo I added it what I asked my stylist for, would a relaxed perm done in blue and pink rods turn out like this?

Little Ms Sunshine · Answer

It's been my experience that new perms and crying often go hand-in-hand.  
Rule #1: Never use a hairbrush on your hair, whether wet or dry. 
Rule #2: Use your fingers and twist your locks into spirals. 
Rule #3: Don't use a blow dryer without a diffuser, and only where the spirals are ready. 
I hope you get your best look and learn to love your hair, permed or not.

Anonymous · Answer

A fresh perm is going to relax a bit all by itself. Give it a week or more before you decide it's too tight.

LindseyS499 usetobe LINDSEYS · Answer

It would be a lot easier to get your hair relaxed, this can take out some of the curl. The stylist you went to may even do it for free or at a discounted cost, since you're not happy with your hair.

Anonymous · Answer

It should loosen up in the next week or two. Mine always did. You may end up quite pleased with it.

? · Answer

I found my first perm didn't really take and I ended up with a slight wave (less so than if I'd done tiny tight plaits) and I then had my perm re-done every 6 months as my hair is so thick it just pulled the curls out (never did get my ringlets I wanted)
I'd say if you are unhappy, call your stylist and ask - it may depend a lot on your hair texture and weight anyway.

princess pounder · Answer

Not worth crying about. A perm loses strength pretty fast anyway.

How do I loosen a tight curl perm?

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