Is it unreasonable for my girlfriend to expect me to give up my likes?

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I like to watch wrestling. She doesn't want me to watch it because she finds it toxic. She doesn't like pork so she doesn't want me to eat pork either.

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She has now controlling you, if you allow it, she will control more, you will be like a trained dog, stop her, or break up, if you wish to have a happy future.

donnie · Answer

She sounds controlling. She does not have to watch it or eat pork no problem but she can't stop you. I mean unless you really want to give that up but again sounds like she is controlling dump her and find someone who likes that stuff maybe

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That is controlling. She is trying to make you be the person she wants you to be even though you aren’t that person and that is controlling.

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I could live with the wrestling thing.
But, pork ribs and bacon is a deal-breaker.
Particularly bacon.

Merit · Answer

Yes, it is unreasonable and controlling.

Is it unreasonable for my girlfriend to expect me to give up my likes?

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