My MIL refers to herself as Mom to my kids?

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My kids are 2 and 3. This is mainly affecting my 3 yr old. The first time she refers to herself as mom to my kids she claims it’s because she refers herself as mom to her dogs. ( all her kids are out of the house) I said I understand but plz don’t call yourself mom to my kids. It happened 3x after that for total of 4 (that I know off) her daughter and her son- my hubby both had a talk. I literally cried myself to sleep the last time. I told him that there’s has to be distance because it’s not right. She knows what she’s doing and to top it off my son is calling her mom. He says he doesn’t want distance between kids and his mom.

Just hurt because he doesn’t have my back. Does anyone else agree that some distance needs to be taking because clearly talking to her doesn’t solve the issue.

Anonymous · Answer

Miscarried = aborted = killed by contraceptives = kids who are now burning in hell because they're not baptized; Theotokos Virgin Mary gave prayer to "Schema-nun Antonia" on how to save these babies (who were aborted, or miscarried, or killed contraceptives) from hell; basically, the prayer asks John the Baptist to baptize them and greatmartyr Barbara to give them body and blood of Jesus; if you pray this prayer diligently every day, then aborted babies are released from hell.

On each painted nail there are forty demons; painted nails = aborted kids in this family; these kids need to be rescued from hell. Contraceptives = abortion; using contraceptives for one year = five aborted kids.

Miscarriages happen because of high heels (as weight pushes down and baby falls out); cesarean happens because of pants as hips are too tight (second generation cesarean will be infertile).

Unbaptized aborted/miscarried/unborn babies burn in hell until Final Judgement; if pregnant, keep the kid and deliver at home because kids are chipped using IVs and vaccines in hospitals. Dentists and doctors chip patients secretly. Ultrasound leads to mark of the beast; don't do ultrasound, please. Abortion leads to breast cancer; a demon is released from hell for each aborted kid.

Aborted kids burn in hell. Stop being selfish. Deliver the kid at home because doctors chip kids in hospitals (usually in the forehead). Ultrasound is evil (baby's DNA is scraped from foot and sent to the BEAST Computer) because it makes the baby demon possessed. Basically, avoid doctors. Deliver at home.

? · Answer

You're coming across as an idiotic baby. Why can't you type out a couple of basic sentences in English?

So she called herself "mom," big deal. Do you have any actual problems in your life?

A Hunch · Answer

You worry way too much about **** that doesn't matter.
Calling herself "mom" instead of "grandma" doesn't mean she thinks they are her children,  And your 3yo daughter is also not so dumb as to get confused that she is her mom instead of her grandma.

Your husband doesn't have your back?????????????
Because your son calls his mom, mom??????????????????
And he doesn't care that his mom, wants to go by mom instead of grandma, nana, or whatever other term??????????????????
She is not trying to take your place or compete with you.

Your children are itty bitty - they probably don't even call you mom and instead call you mommy or momma.

Get into counseling. 
Is the problem really your relationships with your own mother?
Whatever, obviously, it's something way deeper than your mother in law preferring to go by "mom".

My MIL refers to herself as Mom to my kids?

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