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Anonymous asked in HealthWomen's Health · 2 weeks ago

Can I lie to a doctor about whether or not I’ve gotten the covid vaccine?

So I recently turned 18 and I want to switch from my pediatrician to a new doctor. I also recently got the first dose of the covid vaccine. I did this secretly because my mother is anti-vaccination and would have been very upset. I also have some minor medical issues and this new doctor wants to give me a check up as well as do a blood draw. I know my mother will be present, and it’s very uncomfortable to tell her to leave the room so if the doctor asks if I have received the covid vaccine, is it okay to lie? Will it affect anything? Will it show up in blood work and expose me? I’m not really interested in answers like “just tell your mom the truth” or “just ask her to leave the room when you’re at the appointment”. Please understand. Thank you

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  • Anonymous
    2 weeks ago

    I understand you’re at a difficult age where your considered an adult but are still your mother’s child. It’s can be hard sometimes to assert yourself. Your doctor does need to know these things so your best bet is to privately call your doctor’s office ahead of your appointment and let them know that you do not want your mother with you in your appointment. Or you could explain to them, just like you did here, that you got the vaccine but do not want your mother to know. They may notate this in your records and there will be no need for the doctor to ask in front of your mother. Good luck! 

  • 2 weeks ago

    It's better to tell the truth to your doctor since depending on what you tell him/her a doctor chooses the medications to take (if there's such a need). So a doctor can give you some medication that will hurt you because you did the shot. So, be careful with what you tell your doctor...

  • 2 weeks ago

    You're an adult now and no need to answer up to your mother, or hide the fact of your immunization, or even have her present in the doctor office

  • ?
    Lv 7
    2 weeks ago

    I don't know of any doctor who would allow the mother to be present when he is examining an adult patient. Let them be the ones to tell your mother to stay in the waiting room. I stopped going in with my daughter when she was 16. 

    But no, it won't show up on your bloodowork. 

  • 2 weeks ago

    Never lie! They ask you for a reason. Some medications aren't meant to mix and can kill you. So don't lie. You're 18. Tell your mom you want privacy. And she doesn't have much of a say in what you do and don't do, to your body. Just ask the doc to that you want to keep your mother out of it. 

  • ?
    Lv 7
    2 weeks ago

    When you go to the doctor's office and register at the reception area, tell the receptionist that you do NOT want your mother to be present in the exam room (whether she's standing next to you or not).  It's YOUR appointment and you're 18. Anything you and your doctor discuss isn't any of your mother's business.  

  • 2 weeks ago

    You are 18.

    You are switching to an adult doctor.

    There is no reason for your mother to be there unless you have some impairment that requires an advocate.

    It would be unusual for you to have her accompany you and unethical for the doctor to allow her to be present unless you request it.

    Just go without her.

  • ?
    Lv 7
    2 weeks ago

    Since you refuse to do the adult thing and just tell her, i guess the only way to deal is to take the little kids way out and LIE. It won't show up in blood work unless they're specifically looking for it which they won't be.

  • Anonymous
    2 weeks ago

    My first thought - you are 18 - why does your mom need to be with you - make the appointment and go without her.  Do not list her on the forms as having the right to have your medical information.

    You could lie to the doctor about getting the vaccine.  It shouldn't show up on anything because they won't really be looking for it.  It would not show up on routine blood work.

    Then - in a few years from now - when you have grown up and mommy doesn't go to the doctor with you anymore - you can have your medical history corrected to show that you did get a vaccine.  

    BTW - if your mother is anti-vaccination - then how many other vaccines are you missing - you might seriously want to discuss this issue with your doctor and see if there are any vaccines that you haven't had that might still be important to your health to get even as an adult.  

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