Guys: When you're with a chick, do you constantly consider your options?

Question

I'm with a chick who's GREAT.  I mean, seriously great -- In 6months not a single argument, she's a nympho&we have great chemistry, we have the same attitudes about everything, our friends get along -- perfect in every regard.

But whenever I'm not around her I spend a considerable amount of time weighing my options -- whether I should dump her and find someone hotter -- she doesn't have the best body in the world.  

I'm generally not a shallow person, I was just wondering -- can anyone relate?

And please no a-hole moralizing 'you're so shallow' bla bla -- I've been with her for 6months so if I was so shallow why would I have started going out with her if it wasn't for her amazing personality? 

Is this normal, or am I not listening to myself -- that I'm not attracted enough to her?

PEGGY S · Accepted Answer

You just have not fallen in love with her yet.  She may or may not be the one for you.

Razor Snake · Answer

Its just guys intuition. I'm also great with my girl. I do look at other girls because its part of my instinct. You can't help it no matter if your girl is hot. There may be someone out there better than her but I am in love her & thats that!

Anonymous · Answer

It's natural for guys to map out strategies for worst-case scenarios...but, you'd better make sure she's happy and taken care of as long as you're holding the cards. Otherwise, you're going to blow what you have for a pipe-dream...don't be stupid! Ride it till the wheels fall off!!!

Pringles · Answer

dont base a relationship by the outer... 
it will result to more lust than love...

:)

Guys: When you're with a chick, do you constantly consider your options?

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