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dattguy
dattguy asked in Family & RelationshipsSingles & Dating · 1 decade ago

My girlfriend has just left me?

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My girlfriend of 7years has just decided to call it a day. We often have our fights and arguments. She called me last week to say she wants out and that she’s seeing someone else.

I am a 25 year old male studying my masters in the university and at the same time working very hard so as to be financially stable during the course of my study.

We used to live in London but I migrated to Birmingham to gain my masters degree and we both agreed it would be a temporary thing for a year.

I dearly love her and pleaded with her on the phone but all to no avail.

Please advise as its driving me suicidal. I’m quite good looking, very balanced, but just not sure why she would leave me as she confessed before how she could not afford to lose me but now she feels very comfortable about it when we speak on the phone with me still begging her to come back.

I’m sorry it’s a bit long but this is the story of my life (no jokes please).

Thanks

Update 2:

More so, I have invested so much in this girl and we both believed it would be a for-lasting one. I have lost financially and mentally it's really disturbing me.

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  • Felix
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago
    Favourite answer

    Sorry....but you need to BE A MAN and stop calling her.

    Women plan their break-ups with their men weeks and sometime MONTHS in advance. From what you said, I'd say she checked-out emotional about 6 months ago, started dating(and perhaps screwing) other guys, and finally landed a new boyfriend. Since she disengaged from you 6 months ago, she has a HUGE emotional head start over you in recovering from this break-up. When you beg her to get back with you, you make yourself look wimpish, pathetic, weak, and UNATTRACTIVE. My advice is find another woman...The quicker the better Even if you think you may not be a perfect match. Another woman is the best cure for a broken heart. NO MORE PHONE CALLS. if she calls, GROW A PAIR of BALLS, and tell her never to call you again (yes, this will be tough to say but you MUST do this to protect your broken heart from even more harm). Act like a man! NOW, go find another woman to screw! NOW, GET TO IT SOLDIER!

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    I really feel for you.7 years is a long time to throw away without a fight.I don't know you and I don't know her but there must have been something wrong for her to throw it away.Maybe she found someone else, and you didn't know about it.What can you do about it,Not much.You already begged and pleaded with her.So she must have had it planned.It will be hard on you for awhile but you can't let her destroy you.She obviously isn't the person you thought she was. Maybe her needs grew to something different from what yous planned.The best thing you can do is give up on her.You sound like someone who knows where he's going in life so keep up the good work.Move on Someone will come your way that you can love again.Good luck I hope you are OK. Time heals all!!

  • Faheem
    1 decade ago

    same case like me////Forget her because when girls get high then there's no way of pleading them... Its all in vain... Forget her and keep ur standard... dont keep pleading,, by this she may realise her mistake and come back to u.. and if she doesnt then forget the past and face ur coming future boldly and enjoy.. Come on Brother there's no way of gettin sad over her.. leave her and enjoy..May be u get a trully loving girl in future..

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Move on and find someone else. There is someone out there for you, so just keep on searching.

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