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my brother treates me like i'm a baby....?

my big brother is always treating me like i'm a baby. i'm not a baby. i'm 14 and i'm only 3 years younger than him. he's constantly telling me that i shouldn't do things. and whenever i ask my mom or dad if i can do something he always pipes in and says that i shouldn't do it. and most of the time they agree with him! and he is always telling me that i shouldn't have a boyfriend! is it just me or is he way too overprotective? why does he treat me like this? how can i tell him to stop without hurting him? help please!

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  • 1 decade ago
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    He is just being a big brother, doing what big brothers do. He is treating you like a baby because he loves you and because making that difference makes him feel more grown up. Try not to take it personal.

    As for the boyfriend I agree with him. You are too young for that. Slow down and enjoy 14, it will not come again and life changes once you start getting into the boyfriend thing. Grow up to be you first.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Listen to him! Maybe he has good advice! Listing is better than the words you speak.

  • 1 decade ago

    He just loves you and if he is like just teasing to be mean kick him in the shin(knees)

  • 1 decade ago

    he's probably just trying to protect u

    either that or he's trying to make u miserable

    show him that you're not a baby

    act more maturely and all that

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