I am 22 and i love a girl(20) who is doing msc IT..and she is also love me_MORE THAN ME?

oye than marry ...

Hi friend,

at any cost dont leave ur lover... Marry her and lead a happy life with her.. all the problems ll be settled in future.. one thing is if any problem occurs between u both then any one of u should get comprimse and lead the life.. ok the future is us, so take right decision at right time... if the time passes off then there wont be nothing to do, only just sitting and crying for our late decision...

I think u ll take right decision soon...

All the best my dear friend... mail me after ur marriage.. my id is madhav_only@yahoo.co.in...

Tc byeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee

Ultimately both of you are Human beings and attracted to each other - What has caste got to do with this? If you both have discussed your relationships openly and maturely, then you can conclude upon living with each other till death does apart. Both of you can get wedded in a court and live separately.

Ahaha but I know your Indian blood bond would not allow you to live away from your parents and siblings. You would want the girl to live with your parents and blah blah.

But for a second think logically what is wrong in deciding your partner and living with the person who loves you?

You have two choice – one get wedded to the girl you love and other to the person your parents select. I would rather suggest convincing both your parents as well as hers.

Come on buddy get BROAD-MINDED.

I guess you'd better not consider marrying her now. You can stay friends for as long as you wish. For sure, Either your parents or her parents will change their minds at some point in future. Then , you can think of getting married to her.

One thing for sure, don't let your parents strain your friendship.

By the way , you are way too young to think about marriage. ENJOY LIFE

Run away with her! She obviously loves you. The way to make your parents understand...is you present them with your son with that woman--their grandchild. They will have to understand you after that. And what grandparent ever says no to their grandchild? They will have to accept him/her.

I know you two are different castes and all, but you know what they say: Love is blind. The caste system is based on social perception. It has nothing to do with spirituality. It is simply a system devised by the upper classes to discriminate upon the lower castes/classes. We all breathe air, eat and die: We are all children of God.

Go in Peace and Love.

Namaste'

My friend you live in the class system

as old as the rocks on this earth are these thoughts .. people brought up to believe this for centuries .... also slavery is legal amongst other things ... Nothing will change thier views either live withit or elope

There must be some international category for these questions because I don't even know what intercast means. Call me ignorant. It's not my life. I'm American & I've seen these questions before and you must realize how little sense all of this makes to some of us. We date who we want, when we want. I don't get it.

I think your parents and the girls parents should meet. Arrange a meeting among them and do not presume what they would think. You can put your cards on the table and then wait for their response

That's a tough one. Follow your heart and find out more about what it will take to have a long lasting good marriage (marriage counseling), before you take that big step. Good luck!

ok.. I think you should follow your heart.. You want to marry who you love and want to be with.. not someone you don't love... and don't want to be with. Think about what's best for you.