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There's this girl that I met at this course which we both went to. I sort of got the feeling she was into me, and I was into her. Nothing happened, and we never really hung out outside of the course. The course finished a while back and we haven't seen each other since. We did text a little, but haven't texted since. The question is, if I text her, what could I say? Is it a little weird to text someone like that after a number of months to just ask how theyr'e doing?

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  • 1 decade ago
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    Why don't you just call her and ask her out? Texting is a weak way to start a relationship. It says i can't be bothered to actual call and make a date. Face to face is always best.

  • 1 decade ago

    There are a number of things you could do based on the girl's personality. For example:

    You could be honest and say, "Hey what's up? Your remember me? It's kind of weird, since it's been a couple of months since we last spoke, but I keep thinking about you."

    Or you could be more cautious by asking her a question that has to do with that course that you bother went to.

    Or you could be subtle and be like, "Hey, I was deleting old numbers out of my phone and can't seem to remeber who you are?" And she would remind you then you would be like, "Oh yeah! Now how could I forget that? This has to be the first time I forgot a beautiful girl's name. So how have you been doing?"

  • 1 decade ago

    if something funny or significant happen during the class, then call or text her about it saying you were just laughing thinking about the event and realized you havent talked to her for so long and want to catch up. your foot is in the door. now turn your ice breaker text into a phone call after she replies.

  • 1 decade ago

    A lot of girls do this to be nice. My friend gets hit on a lot at those types of things, and she'll talk to the guy but tries not to lead him on, a.k.a doesn't text him very much.

    Go ahead and try texting her. If she's into you, she'll text you a lot. But if she deosn't reply or lets it go again, she probably wasn't into you in the first place.

  • 1 decade ago

    no its totally fine. if you felt a connection and thing she was into you, its worth a txt to see how she's doing. and if she txts back and you guys pick up where you left off, then hang out, get to know each other outside the class, etc. worst case scenario she doesn't reply.

  • 1 decade ago

    Nope. Not weird. Just tell her that you miss her and was wondering how she was doing. Ask her if she wants to hang out.

  • 1 decade ago

    YOU SHOULD SEND HER A TEXT MESSAGE THAT SAYS WHATCHA DOING? AND LATER SEND HER ONE THAT SAYS OK BYE LOVE YA AND IF SHE SAYS SHE LOVES YOU TO THEN THERE YOU GO BUT IF SHE SAYS I DON'T LIKE YOU THEN TELL HER THAT YOU ACCIDENTLY SENT THAT TO HER INSTEAD OF YOUR MOM OR SOMETHING AND ALSO IF SHE SAYS THAT SHE LIKES YOU ALOT BUT HAS A BF RIGHT NOW THEN JUST TELL HER THAT IF SHE JUST NEEDS TO TALK ABOUT ANYTHING THAT SHE CAN CALL YOU OR MAYB MEET SOMEWHERE SPECIAL{ROMANTIC?} GIRLS LOVE THAT [I WOULD KNOW}

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Well if you were friends, then No. Your just trying to check up on things. Maybe even wanting to just talk, so just send a txt to her.

  • 1 decade ago

    so i havent seen you or talked to you for a wile and i miss you she will melt into that. . . and thane be like lets hang out cuz i miss you babe

    good luck =)

  • 1 decade ago

    no it just shows that you want to get back in touch:)

    say something like i havent talked to you in forever, how 've you been (or) whats new? (or) what have you been up to ( or) we should totally chill. :) hope i was able to help!!

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