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? asked in Family & RelationshipsFriends · 8 years ago

Why Don't People Seem To Like Me?

So, when people talk to me, I'm always as nice as possible to them. I always know how to keep a conversation going and make people laugh without being obnoxious, but no one ever seems to want to hang out with me outside of school. For the first time in months, my friend actually said yes to hanging out with me, and the entire day we were together, her phone practically blew up with texts from so many people begging her to hang out. I asked how she got so many friends, but she said she doesn't even know, because she usually doesn't talk to people. Then I asked her why she rarely wants to hang out with me, and she pretty much ignored my question.

Do people just not like me or something? Please don't give me a list of negative comments. :c

Thanks. <3

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  • Anonymous
    8 years ago
    Favourite answer

    Your fine

    These days people don't need a reason to

    Ignore avoid or act like they're not talkative

    Everyone has some hang up or insecurity

    The worst are the ones trying hard to be popular

    The cheerleaders the jocks the rich show offs

    Driving their daddys sports car

    They have to because they're got no substance

    You need to work within your limitations

    And be as polite and normal as you desire

    Connect with people who share your mental

    Intellect and not with ones who don't

    Or accumulate the numbers

    Cheers

  • ?
    Lv 4
    8 years ago

    That's tough, but a lot of people are in the same boat as you. I feel the same way you do, and most of my friends that I connect with live kinda far so we don't get to see each other at school or hang out. I get along with people but I think people just don't put in the effort to know me better. There might be some misunderstandings, and for them, they might just be into something you don't know, like trying to gain popularity or get to a certain place where they can hang out with certain people. It might not have anything to do with you. You are perfectly fine, some people are just blind to who they actually want to be with deep down.

  • 8 years ago

    how do you know that they don't like you? maybe you're taking things the wrong way?

    but maybe,maybe i repeat, these people that you talk to don't like that you seem so nice almost too nice that it comes off as you being fake or pretentious but that's probably not the case since you can make them laugh? or maybe you aren

    't the type of person that they'd like to talk to or mix around with sometimes you have to take into consideration peoples' interest and hobbies just being nice isn't enough for you guys to be friends unless that person is really simple and friendly?

    as for the part where nobody wants to hang out with you, maybe they just don't wanna go out like they're lazy? and for people with best friends or those who hang out in groups, they probably don't go out with you not that they don't like you but because they have their other friends

    and maybe that friend of yours has so many people asking her out because she has something they want or they really really like her for who she is

    maybe so many people want to hang out with her because she seems cool in the way that she doesn't try too hard to please people? i don't know how to properly phrase that

    i don't know about the last part ... but it seems that she went out with you because she was in the mood to ?

  • 8 years ago

    All you need to do is just stay cool nd not lyk making decent jokes, crack jokes being naughty...moreover, rather than moving with everybody, try to maintain a group..all d best

    Source(s): Xperience
  • Anonymous
    8 years ago

    Just try to be cool and be responsive next time

  • ?
    Lv 7
    7 years ago

    wish that was your real picture.

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