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How can I feel better?
So I want to move in with my girlfriend but she said she wasn’t ready yet. She told me that she knows of couples that are living together and are miserable! And she knows of a couple that haven’t lived together for 15 years and are the happiest most stable couple! I want us to be happy when we decide to live together and the fact that she says she needs her space every once in a while hurts like she can’t love me as much as she says! Like I miss her a lot when I’m away from her. She said when we are ready to live together we will both just know! How will we know that makes no sense to me! We have been together 5 months! How long from now should I bring up moving in again?? I just want to be with her. She says she never think about the future! Is this a bad thing! Maybe I need to end it with her and be in pain for half a year to get over her other than being confusing and worried for a lot longer! But I really like her what can I do?
7 Answers
- Anonymous2 weeks ago
You are too needy, annoying and suffocating........take the hint she is not interested.
Move on.
- NonplussedLv 62 weeks ago
If you're pestering her as much as many times as you've posted this, you're fighting as losing battle. Nobody in their right mind would live with someone who's as obsessive-compulsive as you are.
- ?Lv 42 weeks ago
Lol you sound silly, a 5 month relationship is not long term. I have been there . I moved in with my ex after 6 months a dating and we ended up moving away from each other a month in. She needs personal space, and I think that’s important to take into consideration. Maybe you both should save up for a nice house where she can have her personal space when she needs it. And also side note, it’s normal to not think much about the future when your relationship hasn’t even hit the terms of you being out of the honeymoon stage. You should really focus on making her happy, and enjoying your free time with her. If you insist on being with her forever, what is the rush of moving in after only 5 months? You will have years and years to live with her. Sounds like you don’t really understand what a serious relationship is.
- 2 weeks ago
If she's not ready, then she's not ready. If you feel like you are ready to move on to the next step and move in together then you should bring it up again and talk about it with her. If you are serious about it and she's not then maybe you both need to re-think your future together. The future is very important to talk about with your significant other. Also, I would be pissed if my long term boyfriend did not want to live with me and had no intention to live with me for a very long time (like 15 years -_-).
