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So I want to move in with my girlfriend but she said she wasn’t ready yet. She told me that she knows of couples that are living together and are miserable! And she knows of a couple that haven’t lived together for 15 years and are the happiest most stable couple! I want us to be happy when we decide to live together and the fact that she says she needs her space every once in a while hurts like she can’t love me as much as she says! Like I miss her a lot when I’m away from her. She said when we are ready to live together we will both just know! How will we know that makes no sense to me! We have been together 5 months! How long from now should I bring up moving in again?? I just want to be with her. She says she never think about the future! Is this a bad thing! Maybe I need to end it with her and be in pain for half a year to get over her other than being confusing and worried for a lot longer! But I really like her what can I do?

Does being in 2 different places in life make a relationship fall apart?

So I want to move in with my girlfriend but she said she wasn’t ready yet. She told me that she knows of couples that are living together and are miserable! And she knows of a couple that haven’t lived together for 15 years and are the happiest most stable couple! I want us to be happy when we decide to live together and the fact that she says she needs her space every once in a while hurts like she can’t love me as much as she says! Like I miss her a lot when I’m away from her. She said when we are ready to live together we will both just know! How will we know that makes no sense to me! We have been together 5 months! How long from now should I bring up moving in again?? I just want to be with her. She says she never think about the future! Is this a bad thing! Maybe I need to end it with her and be in pain for half a year to get over her other than being confusing and worried for a lot longer! But I really like her what can I do?

So I’ve been asking my girlfriend to move in and she said yes but a week later she said she was not ready. I asked her last night will it ever happen and she said yes but do not pressure me! So how long I need to know and she said she did not know! I have a life and I need to know it’s really not fair to me! I know that it’s going to happen I just want to know when! We have a marathon coming up in 2 weeks time and she said after that we will have a proper serious talk about it! So what does that mean? Just more talk or is something going to happen! I don’t know why she is so unsure I’m pretty much at her place most nights anyway I’ve been there for the last week! She says she is worried about things like she won’t be able to cook me dinner every night if I was there but I can cook my own or she won’t look after me when it’s normally me who looks after her! How long is this going to talk what can I do

So I’ve been asking my girlfriend to move in and she said yes but a week later she said she was not ready. I asked her last night will it ever happen and she said yes but do not pressure me!   So how long I need to know and she said she did not know! I have a life and I need to know it’s really not fair to me! I know that it’s going to happen I just want to know when! We have a marathon coming up in 2 weeks time and she said after that we will have a proper serious talk about it! So what does that mean? Just more talk or is something going to happen! I don’t know why she is so unsure I’m pretty much at her place  most nights anyway I’ve been there for the last week! She says she is worried about things like she won’t be able to cook me dinner every night if I was there but I can cook my own or she won’t look after me when it’s normally me who looks after her! How long is this going to talk what can I do

So my girlfriend has been really grumpy and complaining about everything and I feel a bit burnt and I sometimes think I don’t want to see her and think about ending it! But I know I will be heartbroken! Like last night she was snoring so I told her I’m going out to the couch and she said I’m not going to nag you to stay I’m to tired! Is it just me or is that mean she could have just said sorry or ok. I don’t know what I feel when she comes and says sorry I’ve been a dick and gives me a big hug I just say it’s ok, but now that Im away from her at the the moment it really isn’t ok and I don’t like it. I still love her but I just feel so drained by her and sometimes think I should leave her. I don’t know like right now I feel a bit depressed. What can I do? She just says it’s her special time of the month! But that’s no reason to be a cow

So me and my girlfriend have been together for 5 months and she has her own house and I live with my parents. I did mention living together to her and she said she likes her alone time so not for a while but one day! Like if I were to move in with her how does it work? Do I just pay all her bills of something? The other thing is when will I move in with her? What if in 10 years time we get married and have kids and we are still not living together? Is her house going to prevent us from living together? Because I could start saving for my own house well I have been. But I like her enough to want to eventually live with her! She had said things like we should get a tooth brush and blanket to keep at her house so what does that mean? Should I dump her and just and find a girl who doesn’t have her own home? My girlfriend said she will be upset if I left and I’m the only guy she wants but I don’t know. Apartments in NZ are soooo expensive like $200 a week I don’t want to do that! Then if I did the problem will still be there! Is it just going to be I go and stay at her place on the weekend and she comes to mine during the week for the rest of my life. Should I even worry about this? What should I do? Will I get to move in with her??

How long after dating should we have the future talk? Also what to talk about in the future talk?

So me and my girlfriend have been together for 5 months and she has her own house and I live with my parents. I did mention living together to her and she said she likes her alone time so not for a while but one day! Like if I were to move in with her how does it work? Do I just pay all her bills of something? The other thing is when will I move in with her? What if in 10 years time we get married and have kids and we are still not living together? Is her house going to prevent us from living together? Because I could start saving for my own house well I have been. But I like her enough to want to eventually live with her! She had said things like we should get a tooth brush and blanket to keep at her house so what does that mean? Should I dump her and just and find a girl who doesn’t have her own home? My girlfriend said she will be upset if I left and I’m the only guy she wants but I don’t know. Apartments in NZ are soooo expensive like $200 a week I don’t want to do that! Then if I did the problem will still be there! Is it just going to be I go and stay at her place on the weekend and she comes to mine during the week for the rest of my life. Should I even worry about this? What should I do? Will I get to move in with her??

So me and my girlfriend have been together for 5 months and she has her own house and I live with my parents. I did mention living together to her and she said she likes her alone time so not for a while but one day! Like if I were to move in with her how does it work? Do I just pay all her bills of something? The other thing is when will I move in with her? What if in 10 years time we get married and have kids and we are still not living together? Is her house going to prevent us from living together? Because I could start saving for my own house well I have been. But I like her enough to want to eventually live with her! She had said things like we should get a tooth brush and blanket to keep at her house so what does that mean? Should I dump her and just and find a girl who doesn’t have her own home? My girlfriend said she will be upset if I left and I’m the only guy she wants but I don’t know. Apartments in NZ are soooo expensive like $200 a week I don’t want to do that! Then if I did the problem will still be there! Is it just going to be I go and stay at her place on the weekend and she comes to mine during the week for the rest of my life. Should I even worry about this? What should I do? Will I get to move in with her??

So me and my girlfriend have been together for 5 months and she has her own house and I live with my parents. I did mention living together to her and she said she likes her alone time so not for a while but one day! Like if I were to move in with her how does it work? Do I just pay all her bills of something? The other thing is when will I move in with her? What if in 10 years time we get married and have kids and we are still not living together? Is her house going to prevent us from living together? Because I could start saving for my own house well I have been. But I like her enough to want to eventually live with her! She had said things like we should get a tooth brush and blanket to keep at her house so what does that mean? Should I dump her and just and find a girl who doesn’t have her own home? My girlfriend said she will be upset if I left and I’m the only guy she wants but I don’t know. Apartments in NZ are soooo expensive like $200 a week I don’t want to do that! Then if I did the problem will still be there! Is it just going to be I go and stay at her place on the weekend and she comes to mine during the week for the rest of my life. Should I even worry about this? What should I do? Will I get to move in with her??

I hate life all you have to do is work and be miserable even the fun stuff is a waste. Like I did ask to be born! Nobody does! It’s very selfish. Like I’m thinking do I want to have a kid and bring them in to this crap world. Just for me and my girlfriends sake. Just think when being born if we had the option to or not to I wonder what the population would be like! I sure know I would have not! I will probably commit suicide anyway and anyone who hates life should. Nobody has asked to be here so why stay if you hate it. 

Will it be cool to make it louder or will people look at me like I’m a loser 

Will it be cool to make it louder or will people look at me like I’m a loser 

So me and my girlfriend have been together for 3 months and she has her own house and I live with my parents. I did mention living together to her and she said she likes her alone time so not for a while but one day! Like if I were to move in with her how does it work? Do I just pay all her bills of something? The other thing is when will I move in with her? What if in 10 years time we get married and have kids and we are still not living together? Is her house going to prevent us from living together? Because I could start saving for my own house well I have been. But I like her enough to want to eventually live with her! She had said things like we should get a tooth brush and blanket to keep at her house so what does that mean? Should I dump her and just and find a girl who doesn’t have her own home? My girlfriend said she will be upset if I left and I’m the only guy she wants but I don’t know. Apartments in NZ are soooo expensive like $200 a week I don’t want to do that! Then if I did the problem will still be there! Is it just going to be I go and stay at her place on the weekend and she comes to mine during the week for the rest of my life. Should I even worry about this? What should I do? Will I get to move in with her??

How long after dating should we have the future talk? Also what to talk about in the future talk?

How long after dating should we have the future talk? Also what to talk about in the future talk?

I want to know how much the utilities for a small 2 bedroom house will be! The section is big and the is a sleep out! I want to know how much all the bills and mortgage will be per week but It will be split with someone else so only half the cost! Just a rough guess to what half of all that will cost?