stacy hadu

Right now I'm in the debate of my life with myself and am looking for serious feedback. My sister is evicting my parents from a house she rents to them and I offered to let them move into my 2 bedroom mobile home with me even though if the situation were reversed i'd be homeless. I have my 2 kids and they have my older brother and nephew. I was proposed to by my estranged husbands best friend whom is 20 years older than me and madly in love with me. My husbands friend is paying for my divorce and wants me to marry him and move with my 2 kids to New York or New Jersey. If I move my parents, brother , and nephew will take over my mobile home and other bills currently in my name. The problem is I don't love this older guy and due to the size of his manhood I would cheat on him anyway if I married him. I still kinda involved with my ex boyfriend from before I got married but me and him are not back together. I also want 2 more kids. My ex boyfriend whom I'm involved with doesn't want anymore kids and the older guy who loves me does want more kids (his youngest kid is 20 and i'm 32). If I stay in Michigan I won't have much privacy or freedom once my parents move in with my brother and nephew. Plus I have put in 50 applications in the past 3 weeks and no job yet. If I move to New York or New Jersey I can work for a company that will pay me $26,000 a year to start whom I already worked for and would without a doubt give me my job back. Also my ex whom I'm involved with will never marry me. That's a fact. I want my kids to have a stable life. Should I marry yet another guy I don't love just for stability and hope it works out? The older guy has a pretty good job but he can't work in Michigan. If the older guy moved to Michigan he can't get a good job or a job at all. I have no friends to talk to about this. My family all think I should move but I think it's because they want my mobile home to themselves. My daughter who is 15 thinks the older guy is nice but he is 52, the same age as her grandma. My son who is 12 just wants to live with me and don't care where or with whom. What do I do?

My ex-boyfrend and I broke up almost a month ago by him moving out and leaving me a voicemail saying so. I played it for my cps worker and she was relieved because he was a few fruit loops short of a complete breakfast. Cps got involved a month ago because of his brother who is also nuttier than him. Long story but not the reason for my question. My boyfriend didn't pay anything for the mobile home but to be nice I let him sign 2 of the $500 money orders. The mobile home was $2995 and $590 to move in, I signed the rest. I have signed every utility reciept and rent reciept since the move in date of March 1st. He took all of his personal property when he left. He is threatening to take my dog, my sons games, my deep freezer, and a whole lot of my appliances and other things. He is threatening to get me kicked out of my mobile home and to have my kids taken away by cps when he takes my furniture. He is threatening to get my phone cut off which I pay the bill on time every month for but is in his name. The police said he can't take any disputed property and he can pay for a lawyer and knows I can't. I have been nothing but nice to him. I offered to be his friend even though he screwed me on bills. He got mad because I don't want to be with him anymore at all period and I won't sleep with him. Sleeping with him actually stopped in December when he stopped showering. He smelled so bad it brought tears to my eyes. He threatens to have my kids taken away and my mobile home and I made 1 police report so far but the police said until he takes action I cant get a personal protection order. This guy is ruining my life. I told the guy he was psycho and obsessed and I told him to leave me alone and I want my space. He doesn't listen to anything unless I say what he wants to hear. I can't lie. What do I do next? My kids and my close guy friend all take turns texting him because he won't stop. If I don't text back he harasses me more. NOTE: THE KIDS ARE NOT HIS. THEY ARE FROM A PREVIOUS MARRIAGE AND ARE TEENAGERS. ME AND THIS GUY WERE ONLY TOGETHER FOR A BIT OVER A YEAR. I AM ALSO STILL LEGALLY MARRIED TO MY HUSBAND IN NEW YORK. WE HAVE BEEN SEPARATED FOR 2 YEARS.

My aunt found 4 baby rabbits whose eyes haven't even opened yet. There are no signs the mother has been back for them at all. We believe she was hit by a car. I called the Michigan Humane Society and they said if we took the rabbits there they would get put to sleep. I went online to michigandnr.com/dlr and www.michigan.gov/dnr and called a bunch of numbers and everyone says they can't take the rabbits and good luck to me. I lost my job and have no money or resources to rehabilitate these rabbits myself and neither does anyone I know. My aunt has a pitbull who has killed small animals like rabbits and rats before so it only a matter of time before the dog finds them. We live in Clinton Twp., Michigan. Does anyone know what to do?

I'm Stacy. My birthdate is 1-4-77 at 12:01pm.

I just had a reading done by my aunt so I need to see what you have to say to test you. I know psychics are real and only close minded people can't see that. So, I want to know what do you see. My aunt and grandfather are retiring from doing readings soon and I need to find a new reader. People with stupid PSYCHICS AREN'T REAL COMMENTS NEED NOT WASTE THEIR TIME.

I've never been in this Q&A section before. I can actually test a psychic by asking things and seeing if it has matched anything my grandpa (4th generation psychic) or my aunt has said to me. The questions I want to know is what color surrounds me and why? And most important am I going to be pregnant anytime soon. I already know what my aunt and grandpa say but Both are getting up there in age and i'm looking for a new psychic. My grandpa also said true psychics like him never charge a fee.

I have a Brussels Griffon. She is almost 2yrs. I know griffons are supposed to be emotional but she seems sad all the time. She is way different than anything I read about the breed except her color and size. She never barks or growls. She is super friendly. She is especially clingy to me and seems sadder when I go to work or go to the store and I can't take her. If I take her anywhere I have to have someone drive me because she has to sit on my lap. I can't even use my laptop without her sitting on it or next to it. I worry about if I let her have puppies would she hurt them if I show attention to them. This is stuff I can't see on any web site. I love my dog and her unique personality but is any of this normal? I think she believes I'm her real mom and she thinks she's human. Can dogs get separation anxiety? When I leave her home she is with my boyfriend and my son whom both get jealous that my dog obviously loves me more than them and when I give her extra attention as well.

My ex-boyfriend and I went out from 1999-2005. We broke up and I married and divorced and he has had a kid while we were broke up. We got back together for 6 months a year and a half ago and broke up again. He was abusive that's why we broke up and if he weren't abusive we would still be together. He's the only person I ever loved and my family hated him because he's black (i'm white). Currently i'm in a relationship with a white guy. He is opposite of my type and he's good to me and my kids but I can't get over my ex. It's like my ex and I are together even when we aren't. I know if I go to my ex's house he would cheat on whomever he's with to be with me and I feel I would do the same. We have both been there before. Why do I act like this? I'm in a good relationship but the chemistry will never be there. Why? Plus my current boyfriend likes porn and video games, which is no big deal. He lets me always have my way on everything, totally babies me, lets me use him as a doormat and that bothers me. My ex used to argue with me to get his point across, never babied me, and I respected him for it. I was totally submissive to him by choice. My current boyfriend has a job and I totally supported my ex which both of these scenarios are fine with me. Money don't mean anything. I know i'm screwd up but why?

We had a psychiactric evaluation done on February 27, 2009 (CPS made us do it and that story is too long to tell and irrelavant to this question). In this evaluation it says that my boyfriend is learning disabled and doesn't look well. He appeared to be a submissive individual to the point where he is backwards in terms of social skills. The psychiatrist says that my boyfriend has reasonably good understanding of the vicissitudes of parenting. The rigidness comes from a characteristic of learning disabled clients. He graduated from Neil Reid High School and was in special ed. for all of his acedemic years. He can't get a good job because he can't understand tests or read very well or very fast. He is very bad at basic math. When we have a conversation sometimes it's frustrating to hear the mispronunciations of words or misuse of sentences or phrases. However he is smart about many other things such as computers to a point, and video games are like his safe haven. He is 32 years old. I'm like his second girlfriend. I try to be supportive of his disability and he wants me to go to college to earn my degree before he goes because he is afaid to take too long and use too much money on school. BREFORE ANY OF YOU HAVE A RUDE OR SMARTA** COMMENT NO HE IS NOT RETARDED HE HAS A LEARNING DISABILITY.

This happened 3 weeks ago almost 4 week ago now. My 11 almost 12 year old son fell asleep in class and the teacher didn't wake him up. Later that day they asked him what time he went to bed and he said 2am so they think he goes to bed a 2am every night. At that time we lived in a house where my boyfriends brother didn't work and used to steal groceries from us among other things. My son was questioned at school by his teachers and my son said that he felt bothered at night when my boyfriends brother went into his room and took things. This is where my boyfriend and I kept our groceries. My son at this time was left alone only 5hours a night while me and my boyfriend worked. Well the school called CPS and they came to my house and demanded that my boyfriend let them in or they would take my son away. I wasn't home and my son is not my boyfriends son so my boyfriend let them in. We were in the process of packing to move so the place was a little cluttered and messy. CPS took no pictures. They called me into a meeting the next day and threatened to take my kids away. My daugher is 15 and lives with my grandfather due to lack of space according to state guidelines. It's a personal ageement with my grandpa that my daughter lives with him until she finishes high school. At the meeting CPS basically said my son can't be left home alone because he has ADD and can start a fire. According to police a child can stay home alone as long as the parents feel they are responsible enough. CPS threatened to put both of my kids in foster care if I didn't get a babysitter so my boyfriend quit his job to appease them which takes half of my income away. Now my boyfriend an I live in a moblie home. The mobile home park lied to us about our plumbing so until they get off their butts to fix it we buy water to cook, clean, and flush the toilet. We shower and do laundry at my moms. My boyfriend said that they can still mess with me because I don't have health insurance, Which my employer pays 100% of afer 90 days. We have only lived in our mobile home for 2 weeks tomorrow. How bad can they really mess with me and what can I inexpensively do to get them off my back. CPS already told me that if I tried to get an attorney my kids will be in foster care. I don't use drugs or drink. I don't hit my kids. I have no criminal past or present. CPS want to come to my mobile home this week to check things out and I'm scared to lose my kids.

My boyfriend and I just bought an as is mobile home. We liked it but when we looked at it the water wasn't on. We asked the lady before we bought it why the water wasn't on and she said it will be turned on after we buy it and do the final walk through because it might leak so no big deal. We waited 1 week for her to have time to do a walk through. Still no water. When they did the walk through they said the water leaks outside so we have to get it repaired. Half ther responsibility half ours. 3 weeks later no water, no estimate for our "share", and we have no money to get it fixed on our own. We don't have any money for an attorney and they know it. We are trying to figure out how we are going to pay our rent on the first. The reason for the financial problem is cps got involved with me at my previous address because my 11 year old son fell asleep in class and they think he has a 2am bedtime everynight so to avoid him going into foster care my boyfriend quit his job. For some reason I need a 24 hour babysitter for my 11 year old son even when he's sleeping.

I've been showing several signs of pregnancy, the most important ones except my home tests come out negative every time. i still have my periods but they are much shorter with less bleeding. i want to be pregnant so if i were it would be great. every time my home test is negative i get discouraged. i have cravings, fatigue, mood swings, breast tenderness, weight gain, nausea, constant urination but the home test is still negative. what's going on?