I need some advice please?

I know it has to be hard what you are going through. but first of all you and your son dont deserve to be "hidden". I think that maybe you should try to leave even though having 2 kids it's going to be hard, if he loves you and really wants to make it work, he will find a way to prove to you he wants to make it work, and he'll stop talking to these women. He may not know these women now, but whats next. I wish u luck and if u need to talk you are more then welcome to email me anytime.

i am very sorry that you are dealing with this. have you looked into couple's counseling? has he always been like this or is it a recent change? perhaps he is dealing with some issues that can be addressed. maybe he feels overwhelmed by the responsibility of having a family that is growing, he longs for the time when things were more simple, so he lies like that to cope. i am in no way excusing his behavior, but there may be a cause and if he can talk so someone about it, it may help things. if that doesn't work, it sounds like you may need to move on to someone who is ready to handle being a husband and father. best of luck to you!

I think its so wrong that he doesn't consider you enough as to hide you from people! It is also so wrong that he texts girls that are not you! You should try to ask help from a relative or someone who you can trust to get away from him. Remember that in marriage the only love relationships that should exist are between husband and wife.

He is showing no respect whatsoever, or no desire to be father and husband. He is playing around, and I am so sorry, but he is a jerk and you can do so much better. So can your children. Calling other girls babe or being denied would upset any non-pregnant woman.

Sounds like he is a loser that is not going to stick around in the long run! I would suggest leaving and seeing if he straightens his act up then! Do you have anywhere you can go? Good Luck sweetie!

I don't know what's in your head, either!

You shouldn't be spending time with this loser.

Go back to your father, if possible!

If not, go see a priest or pastor. Ask for references to pregnancy aid places.

Love your children - leave this loser!

You should have a talk with him, tell him that there are kids involved in this and he needs to step up or get out!! Think of your kids you have to be the decision maker and thnk of how they will feel, and you to of course you need to be happy and feel safe!!

sounds like an asshole to me....and no i dont think its just cuz ur pregnant.....i mean ur pregnant not crazy....give him the chance to man up or leave his ass....u got kids to worry about not him txting girls and callin them babe....sry but that wouldnt fly with my man....good luck!! im sure everything will work itself out with or without him....CHILD SUPPORT

Make sure you get a child support order for your kids. I don't think he'll be around for long. Sorry.

You're prego and that = emotional lol. I would be very very pissed if my man was txting gals and forgot to mention his gf and kid and would probably tell hem to get lost