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i'm kinda new to the whole intamate relationship thing. in the past i've always had boyfriends that would tell his friend i was his girlfriend and he would sit with me at lunch and stuff like that but there was only a couple of guys that i was really into and like kissed and stuff.  and we've been more into each other than i have been with anyone else. we play around with each other but we have a lot of like romantic moments and sometimes he'll smack my *** and i guess i like it. is it wierd for me to like it when he does that? and what does it mean when he does that? does it mean he wants to go farther? how far do you let a guy go with you? cause lately i think he's been wanting to go a little farther than kissing. should i let him go farther or what?

kitty · Accepted Answer

No you should not let him go a little further at all!

Slapping your bottom is just in play and I would not make much of it and seriously I would not let him do it especially in front of others, it would send signals to others that you are a lot more intimate than you are.

Every guy that is still breathing will want to go further, that is their nature.

Females are suppose to be the brakes so it does not get out of hand and go to far, that's called being a lady.

If you go to far with him, you will get a very bad reputation so think before you do anything else.

Anonymous · Answer

you shouldn't let him go farther with you unless you know that you yourself are ready. Intimate moments are supposed to be cherished and if you just do it because he wants to then it's not special. 
So I would say, if you both want to go farther then fine. Also, if he pressures you then you will know how much he respects you.

Scribbly · Answer

do what u want 2 do. Go as far as u want 2 go. don't let som stranger on yahoo tell u how far u should go in ur relationship. Its ur body and u need 2 decide weather u want 2 giv it up 2 him or not.

Anonymous · Answer

if he wants to go farther thats his choice but if you want to stay where you are in the relationship he needs to repect that because he shouldn't be trying to rush you into anything if you aren't ready take it slow if that's what you want but if you want to explore further without feeling pressured that's fine too it's whatever you want don't feel you have to sl-ut yourself up either just to keep him as your boyfriend if he doesn't respect you then he doesn't deserve you

nessaplz · Answer

wow that is totally up to you. Do you think that you guys are ready to take such a big step? Its sounds to me like your not ready My advice to you is to take things slow  I know that sometimes things can get heated but there is no rush you'll have plenty of time to do things as you get older. Good luck and remember make sure you feel comfortable at all times never to things to please anyone other then yourself!

Sarashley · Answer

he's just having fun when he does that but if you are your going to go farther with him make sure your ready.

Anonymous · Answer

it is really your decision if u arent ready tell him to back off dont give it up just cuz u think thats what he wants it is your body not his u have to make that decision on your own girl

bina!! · Answer

it depends if you want to and if u really like him and if he is really hott then yea i guess. also if you dont car if it goes around your skool and everybody gets to no it then yes do it!!!

D · Answer

its all up to u... but the how far u want to go is still up to u.... ur life is up to u.... i hope this would get to u. my suggestion is think twice on ur life hope u dont screw up

Anonymous · Answer

this is the one u put the ring on his figures

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