help please?

how old are you, if they are still spanking you you must be very younge. Look kid you need to respect them, if they didn't care about you then they wouldn't care what you did. Tell them you are sorry they wont believe you. But you can show them you are by listening to them from now on. You're not a grown up yet. And you need to listen to the people who are providing for you.

You should sit down and talk with them. It shows a good deal of maturing that you are taking responsibility for your actions and attitude. You should start by admit to them that you were wrong for sneaking out and talking back to them. When you are younger it is hard to see the reasoning in rules, especially when they are coming from someone other than a parent. Just try to understand that they are making sacrafices too and just want to raise you right.

As far as punishments go, SHOW them that you are too mature for spanking by discussing a FAIR punishment that you all can agree to (like being grounded). Don't argue with them or it could make the situation worse and be sure to stick with whatever punishment they decide.

You can also talk to them about having more freedom to go out in exchange for some responsibility (like doing some chores). They will probably like this and could use the extra help, especially with a 5yr old in the house.

Good luck!

Your cousins love you, and are trying to keep you safe. You hurt them. Not many people are going to accept that behavior and still care about you. Evaluate your priorities. Dont apologize just to get out of punishment. Really think about how you would feel if someone you were taking care of did that to you. Take yor punishment. Thats life. Life has consequences for your actions.

You obviously do not have a "normal" living situation for what ever reasons. They care about you a lot to let you stay with them, and you need to realize that. It is so not right to do that to them, making them worry about you, and talking to them like they don't matter to you. You need to suck up what ever punishment they give you for treating them like that, and try to understand where they are coming from. Just remember that they love you enough to have you, you need to return it.

Bend over and take it, and in the future show them some respect and dont asked like a spoiled brat.

stop bein so damn bad follow rules ya think that might help???????????