my big brother spanked me?

Your brother was absolutely right to spank you. He is the one your parents left in charge, and he has to decide on punishment when you break the rules or misbehave. When I was in my mid-teens, if I broke curfew by less than 30 minutes I was put on early curfew for 2 weeks - 2 minutes earlier for each minute I was late. More than 30 minutes was sure to get me a spanking, and if I was on early curfew and broke that at all I also got a spanking. The smack across your face may have been over the top, but it depends how mouthy you were being. Your best bet (while your parents are away and after they return) is to behave.

I thought "John" said he is 18. Were you refusing to practice your piano? Could and did you give him any good reasons for that refusal? What sort of language did and do you use towards him? [John says: "I told her to practice her songs more but she was very angry at me and refused, she also said a few inapropriate words".] A ruler? Spanked with a little old ruler? You were fortunate he didn't use the belt or a hairbrush!! What should you do? Behave. What should you tell him? That next time you would prefer to wait until your father gets home!!! -- but that might not be a good idea either; isn't dad the one that used the belt on your bare bottom when you broke an expensive vase last year!! At least your brother ONLY used a ruler! . Interestingly your brother posted it is "Parenting" since he felt he had to do such while "dad" was away. Yet YOU posted it in "Toddler & Preschooler". Perhaps that is your admission that you acted like a 'Toddler or Preschooler' -- and a ruler might be appropriate for a young child; a hairbrush would be more suitable for a teen!! [I know, OUCH!!!]. . At least it was your BIG BROTHER who spanked you. Likely you'd been crying even if it had been your little brother who did it! But your brother should keep his anger in control when he does spank! . You asked "My big brother spanked me, what should i do?" I'd guess if your big brother spanked you then you should spank your little brother?.. .

Did you deserve it? No, not being smacked across your face ... that could result in expensive dentistry!

Did you deserve it? Yes, being spanked ... yes, even with the hairbrush. Though I do think it should hot have been on your bare bottom ... rather, more whacks on your pj's.

Really, what he should have done was put you "on report" to your parents when they return from vacation.

He is skipping college just to take care of an ungrateful little girl??!!!

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Okay, first your parents left your brother in charge, so you NEED to listen to his rules. Second, you broke curfew. You could have at least given him the couresy of a phone call to let him know that you were going to be late. And thirdly, you did deserve to have some sort of punishment, but not a spanking on the bare bum. That's just wrong, and your brother shouldn't have done that. You sound like a very rude girl. You're 14...you need to respect your elders.

Hes trying to teach you a lesson.Next time instead of an Attitude give him an Explanation of why you were out past curfew and tell him that you are a little to old for spankings....

You deserved a spanking - but not on the bare bottom. That's just wrong, an 18 year old guy should not be doing this to a 14 year old girl (well, you're just too old for anyone to do it, really).

Only you know what he's like usually - has he apologised? He could actually get into quite a lot of bother over this.

obviously he was feeling

the burden of your safety

instead of mouthing off

you should of appologized.

No he should not of spanked

you maybe gave you a grace

warning not to

talk like that again

and if you did talk that way again you

would be grounded or

not allowed on the phone,

or no Tv or no games.

You deserve to give your

brother respect..

it really is awful that you scared him like that

and you were not repentive in any form

however the spanking was a little much

just obey the rule and be quick to say

sorry.

sounds like you were being full of yourself and cocky towards an authority figure. You definitely deserved what you got. You need to respect people in authority over you if youre not ready to accept the consequences of not doing so.

NO NO NO....... yes you should have been in truble but he should not have spanked you with out underware thats going to far and kinda creepy and it is very creepy you need to call and tell ur parents yes he should tell you something like what are you doing and maybe yell at you but he is not ur parent's ask ur self do your paren't do that to you

he went way way to far and if ur going to be there with him becareful... Take it from someone who's been there

I think your both out of control and need disciplined! You need it more so! Obey what your told to do and you'll be fine! No one likes to be told what to do but if we do what is right then we don't need to be watched over! Its a grown up thing and believe me I've seen so many who are grown up physically but not mentally!