big brother problems...?

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i am sick of my big brother treating me like i'm a baby.
 we just went on vaca and on the way home not a lot of us got seats together on the plane. i sat next to this guy who was cute and around my age. i'm 14 and he's 15. we were hitting it off and by the end of the like 10 hour flight we were kissing and flirting. he lives around our area too so we were going to hook up when we got home. when my big brother, who's 17, saw that we were being extremely friendly with each other he came over and pulled me aside. he told me that i shouldn't be flirting with him and told me that if i didn't stop he would tell mom and dad. it wasn't a big threat so i didn't listen to him. but then this guy and i both went to the bathroom. we just went together... we weren't actually in the bathroom itself together. my brother thought that's what we did and when we came back he interrogated me like i was a suspect in a murder case. is he way too overprotective or is it just me? does anyone have this problem?

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Ur big bro does sound way too over protective, but that's my oppinion . trust me i know what its like im the baby and the only girl of 3 brothers. and about the guy on the plane i say , congrates!! if you like him then dont let anyone change who you like its your personal opinion on that. tell your brother to just chill and let your brother get to know your guy friend before he does the judging!

potlock420 · Answer

im 14 and i have 2, 17 & 18 yr old brithers and evan though im a boy who can fend for myself and make my own decisions they r always trying 2 protect me and know where im at. Just take my advice and listen to ur brother 1nc in a while, four one he is older and smarter,(maybe) and four two if u listen to him he wont be on ur back all the time

Becca M · Answer

well i dont have a older brother or a brother at all i have a older sister.. and ya she does put in her opinions but im about to be 17 so i do what i think i should do... but hes just looking out for u.. maby tell ur parents that he wont stop parenting u... u already have parents.. but also sweetie.. why would u be making out? with a stranger..u dont know anything about him.. shouldnt do that...

borogirlforever · Answer

he is just looking out for you your his little sister so if he sees you kissing this guy who you met on a plane he will be a bit protective just doesnt want you getting hurt just explain to him that he needs to chill a little he will get the point

~A~ · Answer

I think you should be thankful you have a brother to watch over you. A lot of people dont.

Yacashama · Answer

well, you can camly talk to him while your parents arent around. you can tell him at your age you are extremely flirtatious. tell him he went through that same stage. tell him that you are going to be careful with guys. tell him that you wont let a guy take it too far. tell him that you promise. then he will maybe not nagg you as much. well, good luck.

big brother problems...?

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